| BOOK I. CHAPTER I.
St. Ambrose, reflecting upon the account he will have to give of his
talents, determines to write, and consoles himself with certain examples
of God's mercy. Then recognizing his own deficiencies desires that he
may be dealt with like the fig-tree in the Gospel, and expresses a hope
that words will not fail him in his endeavour to preach Christ.
1. If, according to the decree of heavenly truth, we have to give
account of every idle word which we have spoken,(1) and if every servant
will incur no small blame when his lord returns, who, either like a
timid money-lender or covetous owner, has hidden in the earth the
talents of spiritual grace which were entrusted to him in order that
they might be multiplied by increasing interest, I, who, although
possessed of but moderate ability, yet have a great necessity laid on me
of making increase of the sayings of God entrusted to me, must rightly
fear lest an account of the profit of my words be demanded of me,
especially seeing that the Lord exacts of us effort, not profit.
Wherefore I determined to write something, since, too, my words are
listened to with greater risk to modesty than when they are written, for
a book has no feeling of modesty.
2. And so distrusting indeed my own ability, but encouraged by the
instances of divine mercy, I venture to compose an address, for when God
willed even the ass spoke.(2) And I will open my mouth long dumb. that
the angel may assist me also, engaged in the burdens of this world, for
He can do away with the hindrances of unskilfulness. Who in the ass did
away those of nature. In the ark of the Old Testament the priest's rod
budded;(1) with God it is easy that in Holy Church a flower should
spring from our knots also. And why should we despair that God should
speak in men, Who spoke in the thorn bush?(2) God did not despise the
bush, and would He might give light also to my thorns. Perhaps some may
wonder that there is some light even in our thorns; some our thorns will
not burn; there will be some whose shoes shall be put off their feet at
the sound of my voice, that the steps of the mind may be freed from
bodily hindrances.
3. But these things are gained by holy men. Would that Jesus would
cast a glance upon me still lying under that barren fig-tree,(3) and
that my fig-tree might also after three years bear fruit.(4) But whence
should sinners have so great hope? Would that at least that Gospel
dresser of the vineyard, perhaps already bidden to cut down my fig-tree,
would let it alone this year also, until he dig about it and dung it,
that he may perchance lift the helpless out of the dust, and lift the
poor out of the mire.(5) Blessed are they who bind their horses under
the vine and olive,(6) consecrating the course of their labours to light
and joy: the fig-tree, that is, the tempting attraction of the pleasures
of the world, still overshadows me, low in height, brittle for working,
soft for use, and barren of fruit.
4. And perhaps some one may wonder why I, who cannot speak, venture
to write. And yet if we consider what we read in the writings of the
Gospel, and the deeds of the priests, and the holy prophet Zacharias is
taken as an instance, he will find that there is something which the
voice cannot explain, but the pen can write. And if the name John
restored speech to his father,(1) I, too, ought not to despair that
although dumb I may yet receive speech, if I speak of Christ, of Whom,
according to the prophet's word: "Who shall declare the generation?"(2)
And so as a servant I will announce the family of the Lord, for the Lord
has consecrated to Himself a family even in this body of humanity
replete with frailty.
CHAPTER II.
This treatise has a favourable beginning, since it is the birthday of
the holy Virgin Agnes, of whose name, modesty, and martyrdom St. Ambrose
speaks in commendation, but more especially of her age, seeing that she,
being but twelve years old, was superior to terrors, promises, tortures,
and death itself, with a courage wholly worthy of a man.
5. And my task begins favourably, that since to-day is the birthday
of a virgin, I have to speak of virgins, and the treatise has its
beginning from this discourse. It is the birthday of a martyr, let us
offer the victim. It is the birthday of St. Agnes, let men admire, let
children take courage, let the married be astounded, let the unmarried
take an example. But what can I say worthy of her whose very name was
not devoid of bright praise? In devotion beyond her age, in virtue above
nature, she seems to me to have borne not so much a human name, as a
token of martyrdom, whereby she showed what she was to be.
6. But I have that which may assist me. The name of virgin is a title
of modesty. I will call upon the martyr, I will proclaim the virgin.
That panegyric is long enough which needs no elaboration, but is within
our grasp. Let then labour cease, eloquence be silent. One word is
praise enough. This word old men and young and boys chant. No one is
more praiseworthy than he who can be praised by all There are as many
heralds as there are men, who when they speak proclaim the martyr.
7. She is said to have suffered martyrdom when twelve years old. The
more hateful was the cruelty, which spared not so tender an age, the
greater in truth was the power of faith which found evidence even in
that age. Was there room for a wound in that small body? And she who had
no room for the blow of the steel had that wherewith to conquer the
steel. But maidens of that age are unable to bear even the angry looks
of parents, and are wont to cry at the pricks of a needle as though they
were wounds. She was fearless under the cruel hands of the executioners,
she was unmoved by the heavy weight of the creaking chains, offering her
whole body to the sword of the raging soldier, as yet ignorant of death,
but ready for it. Or if she were unwillingly hurried to the altars, she
was ready to stretch forth her hands to Christ at the sacrificial fires,
and at the sacrilegious altars themselves, to make the sign of the Lord
the Conqueror,(1) or again to place her neck and both her hands in the
iron bands, but no band could enclose such slender limbs.
8. A new kind of martyrdom! Not yet of fit age for punishment but
already ripe for victory, difficult to contend with but easy to be
crowned, she filled the office of teaching valour while having the
disadvantage of youth. She would not as a bride so hasten to the couch,
as being a virgin she joyfully went to the place of punishment with
hurrying step, her head not adorned with plaited hair, but with Christ.
All wept, she alone was without a tear. All wondered that she was so
readily prodigal of her life, which she had not yet enjoyed, and now
gave up as though she had gone through it. Every one was astounded that
there was now one to bear witness to the Godhead, who as yet could not,
because of her age, dispose of herself. And she brought it to pass that
she should be believed concerning God, whose evidence concerning man
would not be accepted. For that which is beyond nature is from the
Author of nature.
9. What threats the executioner used to make her fear him, what
allurements to persuade her, how many desired that she would come to
them in marriage! But she answered: "It would be an injury to my spouse
to look on any one. as likely to please me. He who chose me first for
Himself shall receive me. Why are you delaying, executioner? Let this
body perish which can be loved by eyes which I would not." She stood,
she prayed, she bent down her neck. You could see the executioner
tremble, as though he himself. had been condemned, and his right hand
shake, his face grow pale, as he feared the peril of another, while the
maiden feared not for her own. You have then in one victim a twofold
martyrdom, of modesty and of religion. She both remained a virgin and
she obtained martyrdom.
CHAPTER III.
Virginity is praised on many grounds, but chiefly because it brought
down the Word from heaven, and hence its pursuit, which existed in but
few under the old covenant, has spread to countless numbers.
10. And now the love of purity draws me on, and you, my holy sister,
even though not speaking in your silent habit, to say something about
virginity, test that which is a principal virtue should seem to be
passed by with only a slight reference. For virginity is not
praiseworthy because it is found in martyrs, but because itself makes
martyrs.
11. But who can comprehend that by human understanding which not even
nature has included in her laws? Or who can explain in ordinary language
that which is above the course of nature? Virginity has brought from
heaven that which it may imitate on earth. And not unfittingly has she
sought her manner of life from heaven, who has found for herself a
Spouse in heaven. She, passing beyond the clouds, air, angels, and
stars, has found the Word of God in the very bosom of the Father, and
has drawn Him into herself with her whole heart. For who having found so
great a Good would forsake it? For "Thy Name is as ointment poured out,
therefore have the maidens loved Thee, and drawn Thee."(1) And indeed
what I have said is not my own, since they who marry not nor are given
in marriage are as the angels in heaven. Let us not, then, be surprised
if they are compared to the angels who are joined to the Lord of angels.
Who, then, can deny that this mode of life has its source m heaven,
which we don't easily find on earth, except since God came down into the
members of an earthly body? Then a Virgin conceived, and the Word became
flesh that flesh might become God.
12. But some one will say: "But Elijah is seen to have had nothing to
do with the embraces of bodily love." And therefore was he carried by a
chariot into heaven,(2) therefore he appeared glorified with the
Lord,(3) and therefore he is to come as the forerunner of the Lord's
advent.(4) And Miriam taking the timbrel led the dances with maidenly
modesty.(1) But consider whom she was then representing. Was she not a
type of the Church, who as a virgin with unstained spirit joins together
the religious gatherings of the people to sing divine songs? For we read
that there were virgins appointed also in the temple at Jerusalem. But
what says the Apostle? "These things happened to them in a figure, that
they might be signs of what was to come."(2) For the figure is shown in
few, the life exists in many.
13. But in truth after that the Lord, coming in our flesh, joined
together the Godhead and flesh without any confusion or mixture, then
the practice of the life of heaven spreading throughout the whole world
was implanted in human bodies. This is that which angels ministering on
earth signified should come to pass,(3) which ministry should be offered
to the Lord with the service of an unstained body. This is that heavenly
service which the host of rejoicing angels spoke of for the earth,(4) We
have, then, the authority of antiquity from of old, the fulness of the
setting forth from Christ Himself.
CHAPTER IV.
The comeliness of virginity never existed amongst the heathen,
neither with the vestal virgins, nor amongst philosophers, such as
Pythagoras.
14. I certainly have not this in common with the heathen, nor in
regard to it am I associated with barbarians, nor practise it with other
animals, with whom, although we breathe one and the same vital air, and
have a common condition of an earthly body, and from whom we differ not
in the mode of generation, in this point alone we nevertheless avoid the
reproach of likeness, that virginity is aimed at by the heathen, but
when consecrated it is violated, it is attacked by barbarians, and is
unknown to others.
15. Who will allege to me the virgins of Vesta. and the priests of
Pallas? What sort of chastity is that which is not of morals, but of
years, which is appointed not for ever, but for a term! Such purity is
all the more wanton of which the corruption is put off for a later age.
They teach their virgins ought not to persevere, and are unable to do
so, who have set a term to virginity. What sort of a religion is that in
which modest maidens are bidden to be immodest old women? Nor is she
modest who is bound by law, and she immodest who is set free by law. O
the mystery! O the morals! where chastity is enforced by law and
authority given for lust! And so she is not chaste, who is constrained
by fear; nor honourable, who is hired for a price; nor is that modesty
which, exposed to the daily importunity of lascivious eyes, is attacked
by disgraceful looks. Exemptions are bestowed upon them, prices are
offered them, as though to sell one's chastity were not the greatest
sign of wantonness. That which is promised for a price is given up for a
price; is made over for a price; is considered to have its price. She
who is wont to sell her chastity knows not how to redeem it.
16. What shall I say of the Phrygian rites, in which immodesty is the
rule, and that too of the weaker sex? What of the orgies of Bacchus,
where the mystery of the rites is an incentive to lust? Of what sort can
the lives of priests be, then, where the adulteries of the gods are
matters of religion. So then they have no sacred virgins.
17. Let us see whether perchance the precepts of philosophers have
formed any, for they are wont to claim the teaching of all virtues. A
certain Pythagorean virgin is spoken of in story, whom a tyrant was
endeavouring to compel to reveal the secret, and lest it should be
possible even in her torments for revelation to be extorted from her,
she bit off her tongue and spat it in the tyrant's face, that he who
would not make an end of questioning might not have aught to question.
18. But that same virgin, so constant in mind, was overcome by lust,
though she could not be overcome by torments. And so she who could keep
the secret of her mind could not conceal the shame of her body. She
overcame nature, but observed not discipline. How she would desire that
her speech had existed as a defence of her chastity! So she was not
unconquered on every side, for although the tyrant could not find out
that which he sought, yet he did find what he sought not.
19. How much stronger are our virgins, who overcome even those powers
which they do not see; whose victory is not only over flesh and blood,
but also over the prince of this world, and ruler of this age! In age,
Agnes indeed was less, but in virtue greater, triumphing over more, more
constant in her confidence; she did not destroy her tongue through fear,
but kept it for a trophy. For there was nothing in her which she feared
to betray, since that which she acknowledged was holy, not sinful. And
so the former merely concealed her secret, the latter bore witness to
the Lord, and confessed Him in her body, Whom her age did not yet suffer
to confess.
CHAPTER V.
Heaven is the home of virginity, and the Son of God its Author, Who
though He was a Virgin before the Virgin, yet being of the Virgin took
the Virgin Church as His bride. Of her we have all been born. Some of
her gifts are enumerated. Her daughters have a special excellence in
that virginity is not a matter of precept, and that it is a most
powerful help in the pursuit of piety.
20. It is the custom in encomiums to speak of country and parentage
of the subject, that the greatness of the offspring may be enhanced by
mention of the father. Now I, who have not undertaken to praise but to
set forth virginity, yet think it to the purpose to make known its
country and its parent. First, let us settle where is its country. Now,
if one's country be there where is the home of one's birth, without
doubt heaven is the native country of chastity. And so she is a stranger
here, but a denizen there.
21. And what is virginal chastity but purity free from stain? And
whom can we judge to be its author but the immaculate Son of God, Whose
flesh saw no corruption, Whose Godhead experienced no infection?.
Consider, then, how great are the merits of virginity. Christ was before
the Virgin, Christ was of the Virgin. Begotten indeed of the Father
before the ages, but born of the Virgin for the ages. The former was of
His own nature, the latter is for our benefit. The former always was,
the latter He willed.
22. Consider, too, another merit of virginity. Christ is the spouse
of the Virgin, and if one may so say of virginal chastity, for virginity
is of Christ, not Christ of virginity. He is, then, the Virgin Who was
espoused, the Virgin Who bare us, Who fed us with her own milk, of whom
we read: "How great things hath the virgin of Jerusalem done! The teats
shall not fail from the rock, nor snow from Lebanon, nor the water which
is borne by the strong wind."(1) Who is this virgin that is watered with
the streams of the Trinity, from whose rock waters flow, whose teats
fail not, and whose honey is poured forth? Now, according to the
Apostle, the rock is Christ.(2) Therefore, from Christ the teats fail
not, nor brightness from God, nor the river from the Spirit. This is the
Trinity which waters their Church, the Father, Christ, and the Spirit.
23. But let us now come down from the mother to the daughters.
"Concerning virgins," says the Apostle, "I have no commandment of the
Lord."(1) If the teacher of the Gentiles had none, who could have one?
And in truth he had no commandment, but he had an example. For virginity
cannot be commanded, but must be wished for, for things which are above
us are matters for prayer rather than under mastery. "But I would have
you," he says, "be without carefulness. For he who is without a wife is
careful for the things which are the Lord's, how he may please God. And
the virgin taketh thought for the things of the Lord, that she may be
holy in body and in spirit. For she that is married taketh thought for
the things of the world, how she may please her husband."(2)
CHAPTER VI.
St. Ambrose explains that he is not speaking against marriage, and
proceeds to compare the advantages and disadvantages of the single and
married state.
24. I am not indeed discouraging marriage, but am enlarging upon the
benefits of virginity. "He who is weak," says the Apostle, "eateth
herbs."(3) I consider one thing necessary, I admire another. "Art thou
bound to a wife? Seek not to be loosed. Art thou free from a wife? Seek
not a wife."(4) This is the command to those who are. But what does he
say concerning virgins? "He who giveth his virgin in marriage doeth
well, and he who giveth her not doeth better."(5) The one sins not if
she marries, the other, if she marries not, it is for eternity. In the
former is the remedy for weakness, in the latter the glory of chastity.
The former is not reproved, the latter is praised.
25. Let us compare, if it pleases you, the advantages of married
women with that which awaits virgins. Though the noble woman boasts of
her abundant offspring, yet the more she bears the more she endures. Let
her count up the comforts of her children, but let her likewise count up
the troubles. She marries and weeps. How many vows does she make with
tears. She conceives, and her fruitfulness brings her trouble before
offspring. She brings forth and is ill. How sweet a pledge which begins
with danger and ends in danger. which will cause pain before pleasure!
It is purchased by perils, and is not possessed at her own will.
26. Why speak of the troubles of nursing, training, and marrying?
These are the miseries of those who are fortunate. A mother has heirs,
but it increases her sorrows. For we must not speak of adversity, lest
the minds of the holiest parents tremble. Consider, my sister, how hard
it must be to bear what one must not speak of. And this is in this
present age. But the days shall come when they shall say: "Blessed are
the barren, and the wombs that never bare."(1) For the daughters of this
age are conceived, and conceive; but the daughter of the kingdom
refrains from wedded pleasure, and the pleasure of the flesh, that she
may be holy in body and in spirit.
27. Why should I further speak of the painful ministrations and
services due to their husbands from wives, to whom before slaves God
gave the command to serve?(2) And I mention these things that they may
comply more willingly, whose reward, if approved, is love; if not
approved, punishment for the fault.
28. And in this position spring up those incentives to vice, in that
they paint their faces with various colours, fearing not to please their
husbands; and from staining their faces, come to think of staining their
chastity. What madness is here, to change the fashion of nature and seek
a painting, and while fearing a husband's judgment to give up their own.
For she is the first to speak against herself who wishes to change that
which is natural to her. So, while studying to please others, she
displeases herself. What truer witness to thy unsightliness do we
require, O woman, than thyself who art afraid to be seen? If thou art
beautiful, why hidest thou thyself? If unsightly, why dost thou falsely
pretend to beauty, so as to have neither the satisfaction of thy own
conscience, nor of the error of another? For he loves another, thou
desirest to please another. And art thou angry if he love another, who
is taught to do so in thy own person? Thou art an evil teacher of thy
own injury.
29. And next, what expense is necessary that even a beautiful wife
may not fail to please? Costly necklaces on the one hand hang on her
neck, on the other a robe woven with gold is dragged along the ground.
Is this display purchased, or is it a real possession? And what varied
enticements of perfumes are made use of! The ears are weighed down with
gems, a different colour from nature is dropped into the eyes. What is
there left which is her own, when so much is changed? The married woman
loves her own perceptions, and does she think that this is to live?
30. But you, O happy virgins, who know not such torments, rather than
ornaments, whose holy modesty, beaming in your bashful cheeks, and sweet
chastity are a beauty, ye do not, intent upon the eyes of men, consider
as merits what is gained by the errors of others. You, too, have indeed
your own beauty, furnished by the comeliness of virtue, not of the body,
to which age puts not an end, which death cannot take away, nor any
sickness injure. Let God alone be sought as the judge of loveliness, Who
loves even in less beautiful bodies the more beautiful souls. You know
nothing of the burden and pain of childbearing, but more are the
offspring of a pious soul, which esteems all as its children, which is
rich in successors, barren of all bereavements, which knows no deaths,
but has many heirs.
31. So the holy Church, ignorant of wedlock, but fertile in bearing,
is in chastity a virgin, yet a mother in offspring. She, a virgin, bears
us her children, not by a human father, but by the Spirit. She bears us
not with pain, but with the rejoicings of the angels. She, a virgin,
feeds us, not with the milk of the body, but with that of the Apostle,
wherewith he fed the tender age of the people who were still
children.(1) For what bride has more children than holy Church, who is a
virgin in her sacraments and a mother to her people, whose fertility
even holy Scripture attests, saying, "For many more are the children of
the desolate than of her that hath an husband"?(2) She has not an
husband, but she has a Bridegroom, inasmuch as she, whether as the
Church amongst nations, or as the soul in individuals, without any loss
of modesty, she weds the Word of God as her eternal Spouse, free from
all injury, full of reason.
CHAPTER VII.
St. Ambrose exhorts parents to train their children to virginity, and
sets before them the troubles arising from their desire to have
grandchildren. He says however that he does not forbid marriage, but
rather defends it against heretics who oppose it. Still setting
virginity before marriage, he speaks of the beauty of their spouse, and
of the gifts wherewith He adorns them, and applies to these points
certain vetoes of the Song of Songs.
32. You have heard, O parents, in what virtues and pursuits you ought
to train your daughters, that you may possess those by whose merits your
faults may be redeemed. The virgin is an offering for her mother, by
whose daily sacrifice the divine power is appeased. A virgin is the
inseparable pledge of her parents, who neither troubles them for a
dowry, nor forsakes them, nor injures them in word or deed.(1)
33. But some one perhaps wishes to have grandchildren, and to be
called grandfather. In the first place, such a one gives up what is his
own, while seeking what is another's, and is already losing what is
certain, while hoping to gain what is uncertain; he gives away his own
riches, and still more is asked for; if he does not pay the dowry, it is
exacted; if he lives long, he becomes a burden. This is to buy a
son-in-law, not to gain one who would sell a sight of their daughter to
her parents. Was she borne so long in her mother's womb in order that
she might pass under the power of another? And so the parents take the
charge of setting off their virgin that she may so be the sooner removed
from them.
34. Some one may say, Do you, then, discourage marriage? Nay, I
encourage it, and condemn those who are wont to discourage it, so much
so, that indeed I am wont to speak of the marriages of Sarah, Rebecca,
and Rachel, and other women of old time, as instances of singular
virtues. For he who condemns marriage, condemns the birth of children,
and condemns the fellowship of the human race, continued by a series of
successive generations. For how could generation succeed generation in a
continual order, unless the gift of marriage stirred up the desire of
offspring? Or how could one set forth that Isaac went to the altar of
God as a victim of his father's piety, or that Israel, when yet in the
body, saw God,(2) and gave a holy name to the people while speaking
against that whereby they came into being? Those men, though wicked,
have one point at any rate, wherein they are up-proved even by the wise
persons, that in speaking against marriage they declare that they ought
not to have been born.
35. I do not then discourage marriage, but recapitulate the
advantages of holy virginity. This is the gift of few only, that is of
all. And virginity itself cannot exist, unless it have some mode of
coming into existence. I am comparing good things with good things, that
it may be clear which is the more excellent. Nor do I allege any opinion
of my own, but I repeat that which the Holy Spirit spake by the prophet:
"Blessed is the barren that is undefiled."(1)
36. First of all, in that which those who purpose to marry desire
above all things, that they may boast of the beauty of their husband,
they must of necessity confess that they are inferior to virgins, to
Whom alone it is suitable to say: "Thou art fairer than the children of
men, grace is poured on Thy lips."(2) Who is that Spouse? One not given
to common indulgences, not proud of possessing riches, but He Whose
throne is for ever and ever. The king's daughters share in His honour:
"At Thy right hand stood the queen in a vesture of gold, clothed with
variety of virtues. Hearken, then, O daughter, and consider, and incline
thine ear, and forget thine own people and thy father's house; for the
king hath desired thy beauty, for He is thy God."(3)
37. And observe what a kingdom the Holy Spirit by the witness of the
divine Scriptures has assigned to thee--gold, and beauty; gold, either
because thou art the bride of the Eternal King, or because having an
unconquered mind, thou art not taken captive by the allurements of
pleasures, but rulest over them like a queen. Gold again, because as
that metal is more precious when tried by fire, so the appearance of the
virginal body, consecrated to the Divine Spirit, gains an increase of
its own comeliness, for who can imagine a loveliness greater than the
beauty of her who is loved by the King, approved by the judge, dedicated
to the Lord, consecrated to God; ever a bride, ever unmarried, so that
neither does love suffer an ending, nor modesty loss.
38. This is indeed true beauty, to which nothing is wanting, which
alone is worthy to hear the Lord saying: "Thou art all fair, My love,
and no blemish is in thee. Come hither from Lebanon, My spouse, come
hither from Lebanon. Thou shalt pass and pass through from the beginning
of faith, from the top of Sanir and Hermon, from the dens of the lions,
from the mountains of the leopards."(1) By which references is set forth
the perfect and irreproachable beauty of a virgin soul, consecrated to
the altars of God, not moved by perishable things amidst the haunts and
dens of spiritual wild beasts, but intent, by the mysteries of God, on
being found worthy of the Beloved, Whose breasts are full of joy. For
"wine maketh glad the heart of man."(2)
39. "The smell of thy garments," says He, "is above all spices."(3)
And again: "And the smell of thy garments is like the smell of
Lebanon."(4) See what progress thou settest forth, O Virgin. Thy first
odour is above all spices, which were used upon the burying of the
Saviour,(5) and the fragrance arises from the mortified motions of the
body, and the perishing of the delights of the members. Thy second odour,
like the odour of Lebanon, exhales the incorruption of the Lord's body,
the flower of virginal chastity.
CHAPTER VIII.
Taking the passage concerning the honeycomb in the Song of Songs, he
expounds it, comparing the sacred virgins to bees.
40. Let, then, your work be as it were a honeycomb, for virginity is
fit to be compared to bees, so laborious is it, so modest, so continent.
The bee feeds on dew, it knows no marriage couch, it makes honey. The
virgin's dew is the divine word, for the words of God descend like the
dew. The virgin's modesty is unstained nature. The virgin's produce is
the fruit of the lips, without bitterness, abounding in sweetness. They
work in common, and their fruit is in common.
41. How I wish you, my daughter, to be an imitator of these bees,
whose food is flowers, whose offspring is collected and brought together
by the mouth. Do imitate her, my daughter. Let no veil of deceit be
spread over your words; let them have no covering of guile, that they
may be pure, and full of gravity.
42. And let an eternal succession of merits be brought forth by your
mouth. Gather not for yourself alone (for how do you know when your soul
shall be required of you?), lest leaving your granaries heaped full with
corn, which will be a help neither to your life nor to your merits, you
be hurried thither where you cannot take your treasure with you. Be rich
then, but towards the poor, that as they share in your nature they may
also share your goods.
43. And I also point out to you what flower is to be culled, that one
it is Who said: "I am the Flower of the field, and the Lily of the
valleys, as a lily among thorns,"(1) which is a plain declaration that
virtues are surrounded by the thorns of spiritual wickedness, so that no
one can gather the fruit who does not approach with caution.
CHAPTER IX.
Other passages from the Song of Songs are considered with relation to
the present subject, and St. Ambrose exhorting the virgin to seek for
Christ, points out where He may be found. A description of His
perfections follows, and a comparison is made between virgins and the
angels.
44. Take, then, O Virgin, the wings of the Spirit, that you may fly
far above all vices, if you wish to attain to Christ: "He dwelleth on
high, but beholdeth lowly things;"(2) and His appearance is as that of a
cedar of Lebanon, which has its foliage in the clouds, its roots in the
earth. For its beginning is from heaven, its ending on earth, and it
produces fruit very close to heaven. Search diligently for so precious a
flower, if perchance you may find it in the recesses of your breast, for
it is most often to be enjoyed in lowly places.
45. It loves to grow in gardens, in which Susanna, while walking,
found it, and was ready to die rather than it should be violated. But
what is meant by the gardens He Himself points out, saying: "A garden
enclosed is My sister, My spouse, a garden enclosed, a fountain
sealed;"(3) because in gardens of this kind the water of the pure
fountain shines, reflecting the features of the image of God, test its
streams mingled with mud from the wallowing places of spiritual wild
beasts should be polluted. For this reason, too, that modesty of virgins
fenced in by the wall of the Spirit is enclosed lest it should lie open
to be plundered. And so as a garden inaccessible from without smells of
the violet is scented with the olive, and is resplendent with the rose,
that religion may increase in the vine, peace in the olive, and the
modesty of consecrated virginity in the rose. This is the odour of which
the patriarch Jacob smelt when he heard his father say: "See the smell
of my son is as the smell of a field which is full."(4) For although the
field of the holy patriarch was full of almost all fruits, the other
brought forth its crops with greater labour, the latter flowers.
46. To work, then, O Virgin, and if you wish your garden to be sweet
after this sort, enclose it with the precepts of the prophets: "Set a
watch before thy mouth, and a door to thy lips,"(1) that you, too, may
be able to say: "As the apple-tree among the trees of the wood, so is my
Beloved among the sons. In His shadow I delighted and sat down, and His
fruit was sweet to my palate.(2) I found Him Whom my soul loved, I held
Him and would not let him go. My beloved came down into His garden to
eat the fruit of His trees.(3) Come, my Beloved, let us go forth into
the field.(4) Set me as a signet upon Thine heart, and as a seal upon
Thine arm.(5) My Beloved is white and ruddy."(6) For it is fitting, O
Virgin, that you should fully know Him Whom you love, and should
recognize in Him all the mystery of His Divine Nature and the Body which
He has assumed. He is white fittingly, for He is the brightness of the
Father; and ruddy, for He was born of a Virgin. The colour of each
nature shines and glows in Him. But remember that the marks of His
Godhead are more ancient in Him than the mysteries of His body, for He
did not take His origin from the Virgin, but, He Who already existed
came into the Virgin.
47. He Who was spoiled by the soldiers, Who was wounded by the spear,
that He might heal us by the blood of His sacred wounds, will assuredly
answer you (for He is meek and lowly of heart, and gentle in aspect):
"Arise, O north wind, and come, O south, and blow upon My garden, that
My spices may flow out."(7) For from all parts of the world has the
perfume of holy religion increased, and the limbs of the consecrated
Virgin have glowed. "Thou art beautiful, O my love, as Tirzah, comely as
Jerusalem."(8) So it is not the beauty of the perishable body, which
will come to an end with sickness or old age, but the reputation for
good deserts, subject to no accidents and never to perish, which is the
beauty of virgins.
48. And since you are worthy to be compared not now with men but with
heavenly beings, whose life you are living on earth, receive from the
Lord the precepts you are to observe: "Set Me as a signet upon thine
heart, and as a seal upon thine arm;"(9) that clearer proofs of your
prudence and actions may be set forth, in which Christ the Figure of God
may shine, Who, equalling fully the nature of the Father, has expressed
the whole which He took of the Father's Godhead. Whence also the Apostle
Paul says that we are sealed in the Spirit;(1) since we have in the Son
the image of the Father, and in the Spirit the seal of the Son. Let us,
then, sealed by this Trinity, take more diligent heed, lest either
levity of character or the deceit of any unfaithfulness unseal the
pledge which we have received in our hearts.
49. But let fear secure this for the holy virgins, for whom the
Church first provided such protection, who, anxious for the prosperity
of her tender offspring, herself as a wall with breasts as many
towers,(2) increases her care for them, until, the fear of hostile
attack being at an end, she obtains by the care of a mother's love peace
for her vigorous children. Wherefore the prophet says: "Peace be on thy
virtue, and abundance in thy towers."(3)
50. Then the Lord of peace Himself, after having embraced in His
strong arms the vineyards committed to Him, and beholding their shoots
putting forth buds, with glad looks, tempers the breezes to the young
fruits, as Himself testifies, saying: "My vineyard is in My sight, a
thousand for Solomon, and two hundred who keep the fruit thereof."(4)
51. Above it is said: "Sixty strong men round about its offspring,
armed with drawn swords, and expert in warlike discipline,"(5) here
there are a thousand and two hundred. The number has increased, where
the fruit has increased, for the more holy each is, the more is he
guarded. So Elisha the prophet showed the hosts of angels who were
present to guard him; so Joshua the son of Nun recognized the Captain of
the heavenly host. They, then, who are able also to fight for us are
able to guard the fruit that is in us. And for you, holy virgins, there
is a special guardianship, for you who with unspotted chastity keep the
couch of the Lord holy. And no wonder if the angels fight for you who
war with the mode of life of angels. Virginal chastity merits their
guardianship whose life it attains to.
52. Why should I continue the praise of chastity in more words? For
chastity has made even angels. He who has preserved it is an angel; he
who has lost it a devil. And hence has religion also gained its name.
She is a virgin who is the bride of God, a harlot who makes gods for
herself. What shall I say of the resurrection of which you already hold
the rewards: "For in the resurrection they will neither be given in
marriage, nor marry, but shall be," He says, "as the angels in
heaven."(1) That which is promised to us is already present with you,
and the object of your prayers is with you; ye are of this world, and
yet not in this world. This age has held you, but has not been able to
retain you.
53. But what a great thing it is that angels because of incontinence
fell from heaven into this world, that virgins because of chastity
passed from the world into heaven. Blessed virgins, whom the delights of
the flesh do not allure, nor the defilement of pleasures cast down.
Sparing food and abstinence in drink train them in ignorance of vices,
seeing they keep them from knowing the causes of vices. That which
causes sin has often deceived even the just. In this way the people of
God after they sat down to eat and drink denied God.(2) In this way,
too, Lot knew not, and so endured his daughters' wickedness.(3) So, too,
the sons of Noah going backward covered their father's nakedness, which
he who was wanton saw, he who was modest blushed at and dutifully hid,
fearful of offending if he too saw it.(4) How great is the power of
wine, so that wine made him naked which the waters of the deluge could
not.
CHAPTER IX.
Finally, another glory of virginity is mentioned, that it is free
from avarice. St. Ambrose, addressing his sister, reminds her of the
great happiness of those who are free from those troubles as to luxury
and vanity which come upon those who are about to marry.
What then? What happiness it is that no desire of possessions
inflames you! The poor man demands what you have, he does not ask for
what you have not. The fruit of your labour is a treasure for the needy,
and two mites, if they be all one has, are wealth on the part of the
giver.
54. Listen, then, my sister, from what you escape. For it is not for
me to teach nor for you to learn what you ought to guard against, for
the practice of perfect virtue does not require teaching, but instructs
others. You see how like she is to the litters at processions, who lays
herself out to please, attracting to herself the look and gaze of all;
less beautiful is she because she strives to please, for she displeases
the people before she pleases her husband. But in you the rejection of
all care for spendour is far more becoming, and the very fact that you
do not adorn yourselves is an ornament.
55. Look at the ears pierced with wounds, and pity the neck weighed
down with burdens. That the metals are different does not lighten the
suffering. In one case a chain binds the neck, in another a fetter
encloses the foot. It makes no difference whether the body be loaded
with gold or with iron. Thus the neck is weighed down and the steps are
hindered. The price makes it no better, except that you women are afraid
lest that which causes you suffering be lost. What is the difference
whether the sentence of another or your own condemn you? Nay, you, even
more wretched than those, are condemned by public justice, since they
desire to be set free, you to be bound.
56. But how wretched a position, that she who is marriageable is in a
species of sale put up as it were to auction to be bid for, so that he
who offers the highest price purchases her. Slaves are sold on more
tolerable conditions, for they often choose their masters; if a maiden
chooses it is an offence, if not it is an insult. And she, though she be
beautiful and comely, both fears and wishes to be seen; she wishes it
that she may sell herself for a better price; she fears lest the fact of
her being seen should itself be unbecoming. But what absurdities of
wishes and fears and suspicions are there as to how the suitors will
turn out, lest a poor man may beguile her, or a rich one contemn her,
lest a handsome suitor mock her, lest a noble one despise her.
CHAPTER XI.
St. Ambrose answers objections made to the uselessness of his
exhortations in favour of virginity, and brings forward instances of
virgins especially in various places he mentions, and speaks of their
zeal in the cause.
57. Some one may say, you are always singing the praises of virgins.
What shall I do who am always singing them and have no success? But this
is not my fault. Then, too, virgins come from Placentia to be
consecrated, or from Bononia, and Mauritania, in order to receive the
veil here. You see a striking thing here. I treat the matter here, and
persuade those who are elsewhere. If this be so, let me treat the
subject elsewhere, that I may persuade you.
58. What is it, then, that even they who hear me not follow my
teaching, and those who hear me follow me not? For I have known many
virgins who had the desire, but were prevented from going forward by
their mothers, and, which is more serious, mothers who were widows, to
whom I will now address myself. For if your daughters desired to love a
man, they could, by law, choose whom they would. Are they, then, who are
allowed to choose a man not allowed to choose God?
59. Behold how sweet is the fruit of modesty, which has sprung up
even in the affections of barbarians. Virgins coming from the most
distant on this and that side of Mauritania desire to be consecrated
here; and though all the families be in bonds, yet modesty cannot be
bound. She who mourns over the hardship of slavery avows an eternal
kingdom.
60. And what shall I say of the virgins of Bononia, a fertile band of
chastity, who, forsaking worldly delights, inhabit the sanctuary of
virginity?(1) Not being of the sex which lives in common, attaining m
their common chastity to the number of twenty, and fruit to an
hundredfold, leaving their parents' dwelling they press into the houses
of Christ, as soldiers of unwearied chastity; at one time singing
spiritual songs, they provide their sustenance by labour, and seek with
their hands supplies for their liberality.
61. But if the attraction of searching for virgins has grown strong
(for they beyond others follow up the search and watch for purity), they
follow up their hidden prey with the greatest perseverance to its very
chambers; or, if the flight of any one shall have seemed more free, one
may see them rise on the wing, hear the rustling of their feathers, and
the bursting of applause; so as to surround the one on wing with a
chaste band of modesty, until rejoicing in that fair companionship,
forgetful of her father's house, she enters the regions of modesty and
the fenced-in home of chastity.
CHAPTER XII.
It is very desirable that parents should encourage the desire for the
virgin life, but more praiseworthy when the love of God draws a maiden
even against their will. The violence of parents and the loss of
property are not to be feared, and an instance of this is related by St.
Ambrose.
62. It is a good thing, then, that the zeal of parents, like
favouring gales, should aid a virgin; but it is more glorious if the
fire of tender age even without the incitement of those older of its own
self burst forth into the flame of chastity. Parents will refuse a
dowry, but you have a wealthy Spouse, satisfied with Whose treasures you
will not miss the revenues of a father's inheritance. How much is
poverty to chastity superior to bridal gifts!
63. And yet of whom have you heard as ever, because of her desire for
chastity, having been deprived of her lawful inheritance? Parents speak
against her, but are willing to be overcome. They resist at first
because they are afraid to believe; they often are angry that one may
learn to overcome; they threaten to disinherit to try whether one is
able not to fear temporal loss; they caress with exquisite allurements
to see if one cannot be softened by the inducement of various pleasures.
You are being exercised, O virgin, whilst you are being urged. And the
anxious entreaties of your parents are your first battles. Conquer your
affection first, O maiden. If you conquer your home, you conquer the
world.
64. But suppose that the loss of your patrimony awaits you; are not
the future realms of heaven a compensation for perishable and frail
possessions? For if we believe the heavenly message, "there is no one
who has forsaken house, or parents, or brethren, or wife, or children,
for the kingdom of God's sake, who shall not receive sevenfold more in
this present time, and in the world to come shall have everlasting
life."(1) Entrust your faith to God, who entrust your money to man; lend
to Christ. The faithful keeper of the deposit of your hope pays the
talent of your faith with manifold interest. The Truth does not deceive,
Justice does not circumvent, Virtue does not deceive. But if you believe
not God's word, at least believe instances.
65. Within my memory a girl once noble in the world, now more noble
in the sight of God, being urged to a marriage by her parents and
kinsfolk, took refuge at the holy altar. Whither could a virgin better
flee, than thither where the Virgin Sacrifice is offered? Nor was even
that the limit of her boldness. She, the oblation of modesty, the victim
of chastity, was standing at the altar of God, now placing upon her head
the right hand of the priest, asking his prayers, and now impatient at
the righteous delay, placing the top of her head under the altar. "Can
any better veil," she said, "cover me better than the altar which
consecrates the veils themselves? Such a bridal veil is most suitable on
which Christ, the Head of all, is daily consecrated. What are you doing,
my kinsfolk? Why do you still trouble my mind with seeking marriage? I
have long since provided for that. Do you offer me a bridegroom? I have
found a better. Make the most you can of my wealth, boast of his
nobility, extol his power, I have Him with Whom no one can compare
himself, rich in the world, powerful in empire, noble in heaven. If you
have such an one, I do not reject the choice; if you do not find such,
you do me not a kindness, my relatives, but an injury."
66. When the others were silent, one burst forth somewhat roughly:
"If," he said, "your father were alive, would he suffer you to remain
unmarried?" Then she replied with more religion and more restrained
piety: "And perchance he is gone that no one may be able to hinder me.
Which answer concerning her father, but warning as to himself, he made
good by his own speedy death. So the others, each of them, fearing the
same for himself, began to assist and not to hinder her as before, and
her virginity involved not the loss of the property due to her, but also
received the reward of her integrity. You see, maidens, the reward of
devotion, and do you, parents, be warned by the example of
transgression.
BOOK II.
CHAPTER I.
In this book St. Ambrose purposes to treat of the training of
virgins, using examples rather than precepts, and explains why he does
so in writing rather than by word of mouth.
1. Is the former book I wished(though I was not able) to set forth
how great is the gift of virginity, that the grace of the heavenly gift
might of itself invite the reader. In the second book it is fitting that
the virgin should be instructed and, as it were, be educated by the
teaching of suitable precepts.
2. But, inasmuch as I am feeble in advising and unequal to
teaching(for he who teaches ought to excel him who is taught), lest I
should seem to have abandoned the task I have undertaken, or to have
taken too much upon myself, I thought it better to instruct by examples
than by precepts; for more progress may be made by means of an example,
inasmuch as that which has been already done is considered to be not
difficult, and that which has been tried to be expedient, and that which
has been transmitted in sucession to us by a kind of hereditary practice
of ancestral virtue to be binding in religion.
3. But if any one rebukes me for presumption, let him rather rebuke
me for zeal, because I thought that I ought not to refuse even this to
the virgins who asked it of me. For I preferred rather to run the risk
of perilling my own modesty, than not to fulfil the wish of those whose
pursuits even our God favours with kindly approbation.
4. Nor can the mark of presumption be set on my task, since, when
they had those from whom they could learn, they sought my good-will
rather than my teaching, and my zeal may be excused, since when they had
the guidance of a martyr for the observance of discipline, I did not
think it superfluous if I could turn the persuasion of my discourse into
an allurement to profession. He who teaches with facility restrains
fault with severity; I, who cannot teach, entice.
5. And because many who were absent desired to have the use of my
discourse, I compiled this book, in order that holding in their hands
the substance of what my voice had uttered to them, they might not think
that he whom they were holding failed them. But let us go on with our
plan.
CHAPTER II.
The life of Mary is set before virgins as an example, and her many
virtues are dwelt upon, her chastity, humility, hard life, love of
retirement, and the like; then her kindness to others, her zeal in
learning, and love of frequenting the temple. St. Ambrose then sets
forth how she, adorned with all these virtues, will come to meet the
numberless bands of virgins and lead them with great triumph to the
bridal chamber of the Spouse.
6. Let, then, the life of Mary be as it were virginity itself, set
forth in a likeness, from which, as from a mirror, the appearance of
chastity and the form of virtue is reflected. From this you may take
your pattern of life, showing, as an example, the clear rules of virtue:
what you have to correct, to effect, and to hold fast.
7. The first thing which kindles ardour in learning is the greatness
of the teacher. What is greater than the Mother of God? What more
glorious than she whom Glory Itself chose? What more chaste than she who
bore a body without contact with another body? For why should I speak of
her other virtues? She was a virgin not only in body but also in mind,
who stained the sincerity of its disposition by no guile, who was humble
in heart, grave in speech, prudent in mind, sparing of words, studious
in reading, resting her hope not on uncertain riches, but on the prayer
of the poor, intent on work, modest in discourse; wont to seek not man
but God as the judge of her thoughts, to injure no one, to have goodwill
towards all, to rise up before her elders, not to envy her equals, to
avoid boastfulness, to follow reason, to love virtue. When did she pain
her parents even by a look? When did she disagree with her neighbours?
When did she despise the lowly? When did she avoid the needy? Being wont
only to go to such gatherings of men as mercy would not blush at, nor
modesty pass by. There was nothing gloomy in her eyes, nothing forward
in her words, nothing unseemly in her acts, there was not a silly
movement, nor unrestrained step, nor was her voice petulant, that the
very appearance of her outward being might be the image of her soul, the
representation of what is approved. For a well-ordered house ought to be
recognized on the very threshold, and should show at the very first
entrance that no darkness is hidden within, as our soul hindered by no
restraints of the body may shine abroad like a lamp placed within.
8. Why should I detail her spareness of food, her abundance of
services--the one abounding beyond nature, the other almost insufficient
for nature? And there were no seasons of slackness, but days of fasting,
one upon the other. And if ever the desire for refreshment came, her
food was generally what came to hand, taken to keep off death, not to
minister to comfort. Necessity before inclination caused her to sleep,
and yet when her body was sleeping her soul was awake, and often in
sleep either went again through what had been read, or went on with what
had been interrupted by sleep, or carried out what had been designed, or
foresaw what was to be carried out.
9. She was unaccustomed to go from home, except for divine service,
and this with parents or kinsfolk. Busy in private at home, accompanied
by others abroad, yet with no better guardian than herself, as she,
inspiring respect by her gait and address, progressed not so much by the
motion of her feet as by step upon step of virtue. But though the Virgin
had other persons who were protectors of her body, she alone guarded her
character; she can learn many points if she be her own teacher, who
possesses the perfection of all virtues, for whatever she did is a
lesson. Mary attended to everything as though she were warned by many,
and fulfilled every obligation of virtue as though she were teaching
rather than learning.
10. Such has the Evangelist shown her, such did the angel find her,
such did the Holy Spirit choose her. Why delay about details? How her
parents loved her, strangers praised her, how worthy she was that the
Son of God should be born of her. She, when the angel entered, was found
at home in privacy, without a companion, that no one might interrupt her
attention or disturb her; and she did not desire any women as
companions, who had the companionship of good thoughts. Moreover, she
seemed to herself to be less alone when she was alone. For how should
she be alone, who had with her so many books, so many archangels, so
many prophets?
11. And so, too, when Gabriel visited her,(1) did he find her, and
Mary trembled, being disturbed, as though at the form of a man, but on
hearing his name recognized him as one not unknown to her. And so she
was a stranger as to men, but not as to the angel; that we might know
that her ears were modest and her eyes bashful. Then when saluted she
kept silence, and when addressed she answered, and she whose feelings
were first troubled afterwards promised obedience.
12. And holy Scripture points out how modest she was towards her
neighbours. For she became more humble when she knew herself to be
chosen of God, and went forthwith to her kinswoman in the hill country,
not in order to gain belief by anything external, for she had believed
the word of God. "Blessed," she said, "art thou who didst believe."(2)
And she abode with her three months. Now in such an interval of time it
is not that faith is being sought for, but kindness which is being
shown. And this was after that the child, leaping in his mother's womb,
had saluted the mother of the Lord, attaining to reason before birth.
13. And then, in the many subsequent wonders, when the barren bore a
son, the virgin conceived, the dumb spake, the wise men worshipped,
Simeon waited, the stars gave notice. Mary, who was moved by the angel's
entrance, was unmoved by the miracles. "Mary," it is said, "kept all
these things in her heart,"(3) Though she was the mother of the Lord,
yet she desired to learn the precepts of the Lord, and she who brought
forth God, yet desired to know God.
14. And then, how she also went every year to Jerusalem at the solemn
day of the passover, and went with Joseph. Everywhere is modesty the
companion of her singular virtues in the Virgin. This, without which
virginity cannot exist, must be the inseparable companion of virginity.
And so Mary did not go even to the temple without the guardianship of
her modesty.
15. This is the likeness of virginity. For Mary was such that her
example alone is a lesson for all. If, then, the author displeases us
not, let us make trial of the production, that whoever desires its
reward for herself may imitate the pattern. How many kinds of virtues
shine forth in one Virgin! The secret of modesty, the banner of faith,
the service of devotion, the Virgin within the house, the companion for
the ministry, the mother at the temple.
16. Oh! how many virgins shall she meet, how many shall she embrace
and bring to the Lord, and say: "She has been faithful to her espousal,
to my Son; she has kept her bridal couch with spotless modesty." How
shall the Lord Himself commend them to His Father, repeating again those
words of His: "Holy Father, these are they whom I have kept for Thee, on
whom the Son of Man leant His head and rested; I ask that where I am
there they may be with Me."(1) And if they ought to benefit not
themselves only, who lived not for themselves alone, one virgin may
redeem her parents, another her brothers. "Holy Father, the world hath
not known Me, but these have known Me, and have willed not to know the
world."(2)
17. What a procession shall that be, what joy of applauding angels
when she is found worthy of dwelling in heaven who lived on earth a
heavenly life! Then too Mary,(3) taking her timbrel, shall stir up the
choirs of virgins, singing to the Lord because they have passed through
the sea of this world without suffering from the waves of this world.(4)
Then each shall rejoice, saying: "I will go to the altar of God; to God
Who maketh my youth glad;"(5) and, "I will offer unto God thanksgiving,
and pay my vows unto the Most High."(6)
18. Nor would I hesitate to admit you to the altars of God, whose
souls I would without hesitation call altars, on which Christ is daily
offered for the redemption of the body. For if the virgin's body be a
temple of God, what is her soul, which, the ashes, as it were, of the
body being shaken off, once more uncovered by the hand of the Eternal
Priest, exhales the vapour of the divine fire. Blessed virgins, who emit
a fragrance through divine grace as gardens do through flowers, temples
through religion, altars through the priest.
CHAPTER III.
St. Ambrose having set forth the Virgin Mary as a pattern for life,
adduces Thecla as a model for learning how to die. Thecla suffered not
from the beasts to whom she was condemned, but on the contrary received
from them signs of reverence. He then proceeds to introduce a more
recent example.
19. Let, then, holy Mary instruct you in the discipline of life, and
Thecla teach you how to be offered, for she, avoiding nuptial
intercourse, and condemned through her husband's rage, changed even the
disposition of wild beasts by their reverence for virginity. For being
made ready for the wild beasts, when avoiding the gaze of men, she
offered her vital parts to a fierce lion, caused those who had turned
away their immodest looks to turn them back modestly.
20. The beast was to be seen lying on the ground, licking her feet,
showing without a sound that it could not injure the sacred body of the
virgin. So the beast reverenced his prey, and forgetful of his own
nature, put on that nature which men had lost. One could see, as it
were, by some transfusion of nature, men clothed with savageness,
goading the beast to cruelty, and the beast kissing the feet of the
virgin, teaching them what was due from men. Virginity has in itself so
much that is admirable, that even lions admire it. Food did not induce
them though kept without their meal; no impulse hurried them on when
excited; anger did not exasperate them when stirred up, nor did their
habits lead them blindly as they were wont, nor their own natural
disposition possess them with fierceness. They set an example of piety
when reverencing the martyr; and gave a lesson in favor of chastity when
they did nothing but kiss the virgin's feet, with their eyes turned to
the ground, as though through modesty, fearing that any male, even a
beast, should see the virgin naked.
21. Some one will say: "Why have you brought forward the example of
Mary, as if any one could be found to imitate the Lord's mother? And why
that of Thecla, whom the Apostle of the Gentiles trained? Give us a
teacher of our own sort if you wish for disciples." I will, therefore,
set before you a recent example of this sort, that you may understand
that the Apostle is the teacher, not of one only, but of all.
CHAPTER IV.
A virgin at Antioch, having refused to sacrifice to idols, was
condemned to a house of ill-fame, whence she escaped unharmed, having
changed clothes with a Christian soldier. Then when he was condemned for
this, she returned and the two contended for the prize of martyrdom,
which was at last given to each.
22. There was lately at Antioch a virgin who avoided being seen in
public, but the more she shrank from men's eyes, the more they longed
for her. For beauty which is heard of but not seen is more desired,
there being two incentives to passion, love and knowledge--so long as
nothing is met with which pleases less; and that which pleases is
thought to be of more worth, because the eye is not in this case the
judge by investigation, but the mind inflamed with love is full of
longing. And so the holy virgin, lest their passions should be longer
fed by the desire of gaining her, professed her intention of preserving
her chastity, and so quenched the fires of those wicked men, that she
was no longer loved, but informed against.
23. So a persecution arose. The maiden, not knowing how to escape,
and afraid lest she might fall into the hands of those who were plotting
against her chastity, prepared her soul for heroic virtue, being so
religious as not to fear death, so chaste as to expect it. The day of
her crown arrived. The expectation of all was at its height. The maiden
is brought forward, and makes her twofold profession, of religion and of
chastity. But when they saw the constancy of her profession, her fear
for her modesty, her readiness for tortures, and her blushes at being
looked on, they began to consider how they might overcome her religion
by setting chastity before her, so that, having deprived her of that
which was the greatest, they might also deprive her of that which they
had left. So the sentence was that she should either sacrifice, or be
sent to a house of ill-fame. After what manner do they worship their
gods who thus avenge them, or how do they live themselves who give
sentence after this fashion?
24. And the virgin, not hesitating about her religion, but fearful as
to her chastity, began to reflect, What am I to do? Each crown, that of
martyrdom and that of virginity, is grudged me to-day. But the name of
virgin is not acknowledged where the Author of virginity is denied. How
can one be a virgin who cherishes a harlot? How can one be a virgin who
loves adulterers? How a virgin if she seeks for a lover? It is
preferable to have a virgin mind than a virgin body. Each is good if
each be possible; if it be not possible, let me be chaste, not to man
but to God. Rahab, too, was a harlot, but after she believed in God, she
found salvation.(1) And Judith adorned herself that she might please an
adulterer, but because she did this for religion and not for love, no
one considered her an adulteress.(2) This instance turned out well. For
if she who entrusted herself to religion both preserved her chastity and
her country, perhaps I, by preserving my religion, shall also preserve
my chastity. But if Judith had preferred her chastity to her religion,
when her country had been lost, she would also have lost her chastity.
25. And so, instructed by such examples, and at the same time bearing
in mind the words of the Lord, where He says: "Whosoever shall lose his
life for My sake, shall find it,"(1) she wept, and was silent, that the
adulterer might not even hear her speaking, and she did not choose the
wrong done to her modesty, but rejected wrong done to Christ. Consider
whether it was possible for her to suffer her body to be unchaste, who
guarded even her speech.
26. For some time my words have been becoming bashful, and fear to
laud on or describe the wicked series of what was done. Close your ears,
ye virgins! The Virgin of God is taken to a house of shame, But now
unclose your ears, ye virgins. The Virgin of Christ can be exposed to
shame, but cannot be contaminated. Everywhere she is the Virgin of God,
and the Temple of God, and houses of ill-fame cannot injure chastity,
but chastity does away with the ill-fame of the place.
27. A great rush of wanton men is made to the place. Listen, ye holy
virgins, to the miracles of the martyr, forget the name of the place.
The door is shut within, the hawks cry without; some are contending who
shall first attack the prey. But she, with her hands raised to heaven,
as though she had come to a house of prayer, not to a resort of lust,
says: "O Christ, Who didst tame the fierce lions for the virgin
Daniel,(2) Thou canst also tame the fierce minds of men. Fire became as
dew to the Hebrew children,(3) the water stood up for the Jews, of Thy
mercy, not of its own nature.(4) Susanna knelt down for punishment and
triumphed over her adulterous accusers,(5) the right hand withered which
violated the gifts of Thy temple;(6) and now thy temple itself is
violated; suffer not sacrilegious incest, Thou Who didst not suffer
theft. Let Thy Name be now again glorified in that I who came here for
shame, may go away a virgin!"
28. Scarcely had she finished her prayer, when, lo! a man with the
aspect of a terrible warrior burst in. How the virgin trembled before
him to whom the trembling people gave way. But she did not forget what
she had read. "Daniel," said she, "had gone to see the punishment of
Susanna, and alone pronounced her guiltless,(7) whom the people had
condemned. A sheep may be hidden in the shape of this wolf. Christ has
His soldiers also, Who is Master of legions.(1) Or, perchance, an
executioner has come in. Fear not, my soul, such an one makes martyrs. O
Virgin! thy faith has saved thee."
29. And the soldier said to her: "Fear not, sister, I pray you. I, a
brother, am come hither to save life, not to destroy it. Save me, that
you yourself may be saved. I came in like an adulterer, to go forth, if
you will, as a martyr. Let us change our attire, mine will fit you, and
yours will fit me, and each for Christ. Your robe will make me a true
soldier, mine will make you a virgin. You will be clothed well, I shall
be unclothed even better that the persecutor may recognize me. Take the
garment which will conceal the woman, give me that which shall
consecrate me a martyr. Put on the cloak which will hide the limbs of a
virgin, but preserve her modesty. Take the cap which will cover your
hair and conceal your countenance. They who have entered houses of
ill-fame are wont to blush. When you have gone forth, take care not to
look back, remembering Lot's wife,(2) who lost her very nature because
she looked back at what was unchaste, though with chaste eyes. And be
not afraid lest any part of the sacrifice fail. I will offer the victim
to God for you, do you offer the soldier to Christ for me. You have
served the good service of chastity, the wages of which are everlasting
life; you have the breastplate of righteousness, which protects the body
with spiritual armour, the shield of faith with which to ward off
wounds, and the helmet of salvation,(3) for there is the defence of our
salvation where Christ is, since the man is the head of the woman. and
Christ of the virgin.
30. Whilst saying this he put off his cloak. This garment has been up
to this time suspected of being that of a persecutor and adulterer. The
virgin offered her neck, the soldier his cloak. What a spectacle that
was, what a manifestation of grace when they were contending for
martyrdom in a house of ill-fame! Let the characters be also considered,
a soldier and a virgin, that is, persons unlike in natural disposition,
but alike by the mercy of God, that the saying might be fulfilled: "Then
the wolves and the lambs shall feed together."(4) Behold the lamb and
the wolf not only feed together but are also offered together. Why
should I say more? Having changed her garment, the maiden flies from the
snare, not now with wings of her own, seeing she was borne on spiritual
wings, and(a sight which the ages had never seen) she leaves the house
of ill-fame a virgin, but a virgin of Christ.
31. But they who were looking with their eyes, yet saw not, raged
like robbers for prey, or wolves for a lamb. One who was more shameless
went in. But when he took in the state of the matter with his eyes, he
said, What is this? A maiden entered, now a man is to be seen here. This
is not the old fable of a hind instead of a maiden, but in truth a
virgin become a soldier. I had heard but believed not that Christ
changed water into wine; now He has begun also to change the sexes. Let
us depart hence whilst we still are what we were. Am I too changed who
see things differently from what I believe them to be? I came to a house
of ill-fame, and see a surety.(1) And yet I go forth changed, for I
shall go out chaste who came in unchaste.
32. When the affair was known, because a crown was due to such a
conqueror, he was condemned for the virgin who was seized for the
virgin, and so not only a virgin but a martyr came forth from the house
of ill- fame. It is reported that the maiden ran to the place of
punishment, and that they both contended for death. He said: "I am
condemned to death, the sentence let you go free when it retained me."
And she replied: "I did not choose you as my surety on pain of death,
but as a guarantee for my chastity. If chastity be attacked, my sex
remains; if blood is sought, I desire none to give bail for me, I have
the means to pay. The sentence was pronounced on me, which was
pronounced for me. Undoubtedly, if I had offered you as security for my
debt, and in my absence the judge had assigned your property to the
creditor, you would share the sentence with me, and I should pay your
obligations with my patrimony. Were I to refuse, who would not judge me
worthy of a shameful death? How much more am I bound where there is a
question of death? Let me die innocent, that I may not die guilty. In
this matter there is no middle course; to-day I shall either be guilty
of your blood or a martyr in my own. If I came back quickly, who dares
to shut me out? If I delayed, who dares acquit me? I owe a greater debt
to the laws who am guilty not only of my own flight, but also of the
death of another. My limbs are equal to death, which were not equal to
dishonour. A virgin can accept a wound who could not accept contumely. I
avoided disgrace, not martyrdom. I gave up my robe to you; I did not
alter my profession. And if you deprive me of death, you will not have
rescued but circumvented me. Beware, pray, of resisting, beware of
venturing to contend with me. Take not away the kindness you have
conferred on me. In denying me the execution of this sentence, you are
setting up again the former one. For the sentence is changed for a
former one. If the latter binds me not, the former one does. We can each
satisfy the sentence if you suffer me to be slain first. From you they
can exact no other penalty, but her chastity is in danger with a virgin.
And so you will be more glorious if you are seen to have made a martyr
of an adulteress. than to have made again an adulteress of a martyr."
33. What do you think was the end? The two contended, and both gained
the victory, and the crown was not divided, but became two. So the holy
martyrs, conferring benefits one on the other, gave the one the impulse
and the other the result to their martyrdom.
CHAPTER V.
The story of the two Pythagorean friends, Damon and Pythias, is
related by St. Ambrose, who points out that the case mentioned in the
last chapter is more praiseworthy. A comparison is instituted between
the treatment of their gods by heathen without any punishment, and
Jeroboam's irreverence with its punishment.
34. And the schools of the philosophers laud Damon and Pythias--the
Pythagoreans--to the skies, of whom one, when condemnned to death, asked
for time to set his affairs in order. whereupon, the tyrant, in his
cunning, not supposing that such could be found, asked for a bondsman
who should suffer the penalty if the other delayed his return. I do not
know which act of the two was the more noble. The one found the
bondsman, the other offered himself. And so while he who was condemned
met with some delay, the bondsman with calm countenance did not refuse
death. As he was being led forth his friend returned, and offered his
neck to the axe. Then the tyrant, wondering that friendship was dearer
to philosophers than life, asked himself to be received into friendship
by those whom he had condemned. The grace of Virtue was so great that it
moved even a tyrant.
35. These things are worthy of praise; but are inferior to our
instance. For those two were men, with us one was a virgin, who had
first to be superior to her sex; those were friends, these were unknown
to each other; those offered themselves to one tyrant, these to many
tyrants; and these more cruel, for in the former case the tyrant spared
them, these slew them; with the former one was bound by necessity, with
these the will of each was free. In this, too, the latter were the
wiser, that with those the end of their zeal was the pleasure of
friendship, with these the crown of martyrdom, for they strove for men,
these for God.
36. And since we have mentioned that man who was condemned, it is
fitting to add what he thought of his gods, that you may judge how weak
they are whom their own followers deride. For he, having come into the
temple of Jupiter, bade them take off the fillet of gold with which his
image was crowned, and to put on one of wool instead, saying that the
golden fillet was cold in winter and heavy in summer. So he derided his
god as being unable to bear either a weight or cold. He, too, when he
saw the golden beard of Aesculapius, bade them remove it, saying that it
was not fit for the son to have a beard when the father had none. Again,
he took away the golden bowls from the images which held them, saying
that he ought to receive what the gods gave. For. said he, men make
prayers to receive good things from the gods, and nothing is better than
gold; if, however, gold be evil, the gods ought not to have it; if it be
good, it is better that men should have it who know how to use it.
37. Such objects of ridicule were they, that neither could Jupiter
defend his garment, nor Aesculapius his beard, for Apollo had not yet
begun to grow one; nor could all those who are esteemed gods keep the
golden bowls which they were holding, not fearing the charge of theft so
much as not having any feeling. Who, then, would worship them, who can
neither defend themselves as gods nor hide themselves as men?
38. But when in the temple of our God, that wicked king Jeroboam took
away the gifts which his father had laid up, and offered to idols upon
the holy altar, did not his right hand, which he stretched out, wither,
and his idols, which he called upon, were not able to help him? Then,
turning to the Lord, he asked for pardon, and at once his hand which had
withered by sacrilege was healed by true religion. So complete an
example was there set forth in one person, both of divine mercy and
wrath when he who was sacrificing suddenly lost his right hand, but when
penitent received forgiveness.(1)
CHAPTER VI.
St. Ambrose, in concluding the second book, ascribes any good there
may be in it to the merits of the virgins, and sets forth that it was
right before laying down any severe precepts to encourage them by
examples, as is done both in human teaching and in holy Scripture.
39. I, Who have been not yet three years a bishop, have prepared this
offering for you, holy virgins, although untaught by my own experience,
yet having learnt much from your mode of life. For what experience could
have grown up in so short a time of being initiated in religion? If you
find any flowers herein, gather them together in the bosom of your
lives. These are not precepts for virgins, but instances taken from
virgins. My words have sketched the likeness of your virtue, you may see
the reflection of your gravity, as it were, in the mirror of this
discourse. If you have received any pleasure from my ability, all the
fragrance of this book is yours. And since there are as many opinions as
there are persons, if there be anything simple in my treatise let all
read it; if anything stronger, let the more mature prove it; if anything
modest, let it cleave to the breast and tinge the cheeks; if there be
anything flowery, let the flowery age of youth not disdain it.
40. We ought to stir up the love of the bride, for iris written:
"Thou shalt love the Lord thy God."(2) At bridal feasts we ought to
adorn the hair at least with some ornaments of prayer, for it is
written: "Smite the hands together, and strike with the foot."(3) We
ought to scatter roses on those uninterrupted bridals. Even in these
temporal marriages the bride is received with acclamation before she
receives commands, lest hard commands should hurt her, before love
cherished by kindness grows strong.
41. Horses learn to love the sound of patting their necks, that they
may not refuse the yoke, and are first trained with words of enticement
before the stripe of discipline. But when the horse has submitted its
neck to the yoke, the rein pulls in, and the spur urges on, and its
companions draw it, and the driver bids it. So, too, our virgin ought
first to play with pious love, and admire the golden supports of the
heavenly marriage couch on the very threshold of marriage, and to see
the door-posts adorned with wreaths of leaves, and to taste the delight
of the musicians playing within; that she may not through fear withdraw
herself from the Lord's yoke, before she obeys His call.
42. "Come, then, hither from Lebanon, My spouse, come hither from
Lebanon, thou shalt pass and pass through."(1) This verse must be often
repeated by us, that at least being called by the words of the Lord, she
may follow if there be any who will not trust the words of man. We have
not formed this power for ourselves, but have received it; this is the
heavenly teaching of the mystic song: "Let Him kiss me with the kisses
of His mouth, for Thy breasts are better than wine, and the odor of Thy
ointments is above all spices. Thy name is as ointment poured forth."(2)
The whole of that place of delights sounds of sport, stirs up approval,
calls forth love. "Therefore," it continues, "have the maidens loved
Thee and have drawn Thee, let us run after the odour of Thy ointments.
The King hath brought me into His chamber."(3) She began with kisses,
and so attained to the chamber.
43. She, now so patient of hard toil, and of practised virtue, as to
open the bars with her hand, go forth into the field, and abide in
strongholds, at the beginning ran after the odour of the ointment; soon
when she is come into the chamber the ointment is changed. And see
whither she goes: "If it be a wall," it is said, "we will build upon it
towers of silver."(4) She who sported with kisses now builds towers
that, encircled with the precious battlements of the saints, she may not
only render fruitless the attacks of the enemy, but also erect the safe
defences of holy merits.
BOOK III.
CHAPTER I.
St. Ambrose now goes back to the address of Liberius when he gave the
veil to Marcellina. Touching on the crowds pressing to the bridal feast
of that Spouse Who feeds them all, he passes on to the fitness of her
profession on the day on which Christ was born of a Virgin, and
concludes with a fervent exhortation to love Him.
1. Inasmuch as I have digressed in what I have said in the two former
hooks, it is now time, holy sister, to reconsider those precepts of
Liberius(1) of blessed memory which you used to talk over with me, as
the holier the man the more pleasing is his discourse. For he, when on
the Nativity of the Saviour in the Church of St. Peter you signified
your profession of virginity by your change of attire(2) (and what day
could be better than that on which the Virgin received her child?)
whilst many virgins were standing round and vying with each other for
your companionship. "You," said he, "my daughter, have desired a good
espousal. You see how great a crowd has come together for the birthday
of your Spouse, and none has gone away without food. This is He, Who,
when invited to the marriage feast, changed water into wine.(3) He, too,
will confer the pure sacrament of virginity on you who before were
subject to the vile elements of material nature. This is He Who fed four
thousand in the wilderness with five loaves and two fishes."(4) He could
have fed more; if more had been there to be fed, they would have been.
And now He has called many to your espousal, but it is not now barley
bread, but the Body from heaven which is supplied.
2. To-day, indeed, He was born after the manner of men, of a Virgin,
but was begotten of the Father before all things, resembling His mother
in body, His Father in power. Only-begotten on earth, and Only-begotten
in heaven. God of God, born of a Virgin, Righteousness from the Father,
Power from the Mighty One, Light of Light, not unequal to His Father;
nor separated in power, not confused by extension of the Word or
enlargement as though mingled with the Father, but distinguished from
the Father by virtue of His generation. He is your Brother,(1) without
Whom neither things in heaven, nor things in the sea, nor things on
earth consist. The good Word of the Father, Which was, it is said, "in
the beginning,"(2) here you have His eternity. "And," it is said," the
Word was with God."(3) Here you have His power, undivided and
inseparable from the Father. "And the Word was God."(4) Here you have
His unbegotten Godhead, for your faith is to be drawn from the mutual
relationship.
3. Love him, my daughter, for He is good. For, "None is good save God
only."(5) For if there be no doubt that the Son is God, and that God is
good, there is certainly no doubt that God the Son is good. Love Him I
say. He it is Whom the Father begat before the morning star,(6) as being
eternal, He brought Him forth from the womb as the Son; He uttered him
from His heart,(7) as the Word. He it is in Whom the Father is well
pleased;(8) He is the Arm of the Father, for He is Creator of all, and
the Wisdom(9) of the Father, for He proceeded from the mouth of God;(10)
the Power of the Father, because the fulness of the Godhead dwelleth in
Him bodily.(11) And the Father so loved Him, as to bear Him in His
bosom, and place Him at His right hand, that you may learn His wisdom,
and know His power.
4. If, then, Christ is the Power of God, was God ever without power?
Was the Father ever without the Son? If the Father of a certainty always
was, of a certainty the Son always was. So He is the perfect Son of a
perfect Father. For he who derogates from the power, derogates from Him
Whose is the power. The Perfection of the Godhead does not admit of
inequality. Love, then, Him Whom the Father loves, honour Him Whom the
Father honours, for "he that honoureth not the Son, honoureth not the
Father,"(12) and "whoso denieth the Son, hath not the Father."(13) So
much as to the faith.
CHAPTER II.
Touching next upon the training of a virgin, he speaks of moderation
in food and drink, and of restraint upon the impulses of the mind,
introducing some teaching upon the fable of the death and resurrection
of Hippolytus, and advises the avoidance of certain meats.
5. But sometimes even when faith is to be relied upon, youth is not
trusted. Use wine, therefore, sparingly, in order that the weakness of
the body may not increase, not for pleasurable excitement, for each
alike kindles a flame, both wine and youth. Let fasts also put a bridle
on tender age, and spare diet restrain the unsubdued appetites with a
kind of rein. Let reason check, hope subdue, and fear curb them. For he
who knows not how to govern his desires, like a man run away with by
wild horses, is overthrown, bruised, torn, and injured.
6. And this is said to have happened to a youth for his love of
Diana. But the fable is coloured with poet's tales, that Neptune,
stirred with grief at his rival being preferred, sent madness upon his
horses, whereby his great power might be set forth in that he overcame
the youth, not by strength, but by fraud. And from this event a yearly
sacrifice is celebrated for Diana, when a horse is offered at her altar.
And they say that she was a virgin, and (of which even harlots would be
ashamed) yet could love one who did not love her. But as far as I am
concerned let their fables have authority, for though each be criminal,
it is yet a less evil that a youth should have been so enamoured of an
adulteress as to perish, than that two gods should, as they relate,
contend for committing adultery, and that Jupiter avenged the grief of
his daughter who played the harlot on the physician who cured the wound
of him who had violated Diana in the woods, a most excellent huntress,
no doubt, not of wild beasts, but of lust: yet also of wild beasts, so
that she was worshipped naked.
7. Let them ascribe, then, to Neptune the mastery over madness, in
order to fix on him the crime of unchaste love. Let them ascribe to
Diana the rule over the woods, wherein she dwelt, so as to establish the
adultery which she practised. Let them ascribe to Aesculapius the
restoration of the dead so long as they confess that when struck by
lightning he himself escaped not. Let them also ascribe to Jupiter the
thunderbolts which he did not possess, so that they witness to the
disgrace with which he was laden.
8. And I think that one should sparingly eat all kinds of food which
cause heat to the limbs, for flesh drags down even eagles as they fly.
But within you let that bird of which we read, "Thy youth shall be
renewed like the eagle's,"(1) holding its course on high, swift in its
virgin flight, be ignorant of the desire for unnecessary food. The
gathering of banquets and salutations must be avoided.
CHAPTER III.
Virgins are exhorted to avoid visits, to observe modesty, to be
silent during the celebration of the Mysteries after the example of
Mary. Then after narrating the story of a heathen youth, and saying of a
poet, St. Ambrose relates a miracle wrought by a holy priest.
9. I will, too, that visits amongst the younger, except such as may
be due to parents and those of like age, be few. For modesty is worn
away by intercourse, and boldness breaks forth, laughter creeps in, and
bashfulness is lessened, whilst politeness is studied. Not to answer one
who asks a question is childishness, to answer is nonsense. I should
prefer, therefore, that conversation should rather be wanting to a
virgin, than abound. For if women are bidden to keep silence in
churches, even about divine things, and to ask their husbands at home,
what do we think should be the caution of virgins, in whom modesty
adorns their age, and silence commends their modesty.
10. Was it a small sign of modesty that when Rebecca came to wed
Isaac, and saw her bridegroom, she took a veil,(2) that she might not be
seen before they were united? Certainly the fair virgin feared not for
her beauty, but for her modesty. What of Rachel, how she, when Jacob's
kiss had been taken,(3) wept and groaned, and would not have ceased
weeping had she not known him to be a kinsman? So she both observed what
was due to modesty, and omitted not kindly affection. But if it is said
to a man: "Gaze not on a maid, lest she cause thee to fall,"(4) what is
to be said to a consecrated virgin, who, if she loves, sins in mind; if
she is loved, in act also?
11. The virtue of silence, especially in Church, is very great. Let
no sentence of the divine lessons escape you; if you give ear, restrain
your voice, utter no word with your lips which you would wish to recall,
but let your boldness to speak be sparing. For in truth in much speaking
there is abundance of sin.(1) To the murderer it was said: "Thou hast
sinned, be silent,"(2) that he might not sin more; but to the virgin it
must be said, "Be silent lest thou sin." For Mary, as we read, kept in
heart all things that were said concerning her Son,(3) and do you, when
any passage is read where Christ is announced as about to come, or is
shown to have come, not make a noise by talking, but attend. Is anything
more unbecoming than the divine words should be so drowned by talking,
as not to be heard, believed, or made known, that the sacraments should
be indistinctly heard through the sound of voices, that prayer should be
hindered when offered for the salvation of all?
12. The Gentiles pay respect to their idols by silence, of which this
instance is given: As Alexander, the king of the Macedonians, was
sacrificing, the sleeve of a barbarian lad who was lighting the lamp for
him caught fire and burnt his body, yet he remained without moving and
neither betrayed the pain by a groan, nor showed his suffering by silent
tears. Such was the discipline of reverence in a barbarian lad that
nature was subdued. Yet he feared not the gods, who were no gods, but
the king. For why should he fear those who if the same fire had caught
them would have burnt?
13. How much better still is it where a youth at his father's banquet
is bidden not to betray by coarse gestures his unchaste loves. And do
you, holy virgin, abstain from groans, cries, coughing, and laughter at
the Mystery. Can you not at the Mystery do what he did at a banquet? Let
virginity be first marked by the voice, let modesty close the mouth, let
religion remove weakness, and habit instruct nature. Let her gravity
first announce a virgin to me, a modest approach, a sober gait, a
bashful countenance, and let the march of virtue be preceded by the
evidence of integrity. That virgin is not sufficiently worthy of
approval who has to be enquired about when she is seen.
14. There is common story how, when the excessive croaking of frogs
was resounding in the ears of the faithful people, the priest of God
bade them be silent, and show reverence to the sacred words, and then at
once the noise was stilled. Shall then the marshes keep silence and not
the frogs? And shall irrational animals re-acknowledge by reverence what
they know not by nature? While the shamelessness of men is such, that
many care not to pay that respect to the religious feelings of their
minds, which they do to the pleasure of their ears.
CHAPTER IV.
Having summed up the address of Liberius, St. Ambrose passes on to
the virtues of his sister, especially her fasts, which however he
advises her to moderate to some extent, and to exercise herself in other
matters, after the example which he adduces. Especially he recommends
the Lord's Prayer, and the repetition of Psalms by night, and the
recitation of the Creed before daylight.
15. After such a fashion did Liberius of holy memory address you, in
words beyond the reality of practice in most cases, but coming short of
your performance, who have not only attained to the whole of discipline
by your virtue, but have surpassed it in your zeal. For we are bidden to
practise fasting, but only for single days; but you, multiplying nights
and days, pass untold periods without food, and if ever requested to
partake of some, and to lay aside your book a little while, you at once
answer: "Man doth not live by bread alone, but by every word of God."(1)
Your very meals consisted but of what food came to hand, so that fasting
is to be preferred to eating what was repugnant; your drink is from the
spring, your weeping and prayer combine, your sleep is on your book.
16. These kings were suited to younger years, whilst he was ripening
with the gray hairs of age; but when a virgin has gained the triumph
over her subdued body, she should lessen her toil, that she may be
preserved as teacher for a younger age. The vine laden with the fruitful
branches of full growth soon breaks unless it be from time to time kept
back. But whilst it is young let it grow rank, and as it grows older be
pruned, so as not to grow into a forest of twigs, or die deprived of
life by its exceptive produce. A good husbandman by tending the soil
keeps the vine in excellent order, protects it from cold, and guards it
from being parched by the mid-day sun. And he works his land by turns,
or if he will not let it lie fallow, he alternates his crops, so that
the fields may rest through change of produce. Do you too, a veteran in
virginity, at least sow the fields of your breast with different seeds,
at one time with moderate sustenance, at another with sparing fasts,
with reading, work, and prayer, that change of toil may be as a truce
for rest.
17. The whole land does not produce the same harvest. On one side
vines grow on the hills, on another you can see the purple olives,
elsewhere the scented roses. And after leaving the plough, the strong
husbandman with his fingers scrapes the soil to plant the roots of
flowers, and with the rough hands wherewith he turns the bullocks
striving amongst the vines, he gently presses the udders of the sheep.
The land is the better the more numerous are its fruits. So do you,
following the example of a good husbandman, avoid cleaving your soil
with perpetual fastings as if with deep ploughings. Let the rose of
modesty bloom in your garden, and the lily of the mind, and let the
violet beds drink from the source of sacred blood. There is a common
saying, "What you wish to perform abundantly, sometimes do not do at
all." There ought to be something to add to the days of Lent, but so
that nothing be done for the sake of ostentation, but of religion.
18. Frequent prayer also commends us to God. For if the prophet says,
"Seven times a day have I praised Thee,"(1) though he was busy with the
affairs of a kingdom, what ought we to do, who read: "Watch and pray
that ye enter not into temptation"?(2) Certainly our customary prayers
ought to be said with giving of thanks, when we rise from sleep, when we
go forth, when we prepare to receive food, after receiving it, and at
the hour of incense,(3) when at last we are going to rest.
19. And again in your bed-chamber itself, I would have you join
psalms in frequent interchange with the Lord's prayer, either when you
wake up, or before sleep bedews your body, so that at the very
commencement of rest sleep may find you free from the care of worldly
matters, meditating upon the things of God. And, indeed, he who first
found out the name of Philosophy itself,(4) every day before he went to
rest, had the flute- player play softer melodies to soothe his mind
disturbed by worldly cares. But he, like a man washing tiles,
fruitlessly desired to drive away worldly things by worldly means, for
he was, indeed, rather besmearing himself with fresh mud, in seeking a
reward from pleasure, but let us, haying wiped off the filth of earthly
vices, purify our utmost souls from every defilement of the flesh.
20. We ought, also, specially to repeat the Creed, as a seal upon our
hearts, daily, before light, and to recur to it in thought whenever we
are in fear of anything. For when is the soldier in his tent or the
warrior in battle without his military oath?
CHAPTER V.
St. Ambrose, speaking of tears, explains David's saying, "Every night
wash l my couch with my tears," and goes on to speak of Christ bearing
our griefs and infirmities. Everything should be referred to His honour,
and we ought to rejoice with spiritual joy, but not after a worldly
fashion.
21. And who can now fail to understand that the holy prophet said for
our instruction: "Every night will I wash my couch and water my bed with
my tears"?(1) For if you take it literally for his bed, he shows that
such abundance of tears should be shed as to wash the bed and water it
with tears, the couch of him who is praying, for weeping has to do with
the present, rewards with the future, since it is said: "Blessed are ye
that weep, for ye shall laugh;"(2) or if we take the word of the prophet
as applied to our bodies, we must wash away the offences of the body
with tears of penitence. For Solomon made himself a bed of wood from
Lebanon, its pillars were of silver, its bottom of gold, its back strewn
with gems.(3) What is that bed but the fashion of our body? For by gems
is set forth the splendour of the brightness of the air, fire is set
forth by the gold, water by silver, and earth by wood, of which four
elements the human body consists, in which our soul rests, if it do not
exist deprived of rest by the roughness of hills or the damp ground, but
raised on high, above vices, supported by the wood. For which reason
David also says: "The Lord will send him help upon his bed of pain."(4)
For how can that be a bed of pain which cannot feel pain, and which has
no feeling? But the body of pain is like the body of that death, of
which it is said: "O wretched man that I am, who shall deliver me from
the body of this death?"(5)
22. And since I have inserted a clause in which mention is made of
the Lord's Body, lest any one should be troubled at reading that the
Lord took a body of pain, let him remember that the Lord grieved and
wept over the death of Lazarus,(1) and was wounded in His passion, and
that from the wound there went forth blood and water,(2) and that He
gave up His Spirit. Water for washing, Blood for drink, the Spirit for
His rising again. For Christ alone is to us hope, faith, and love--hope
in His resurrection, faith in the layer, and love in the sacrament.
23. And as He took a body of pain, so too He turned His bed in His
weakness.(3) for He converted it to the benefit of human flesh. For by
His Passion weakness was ended, and death by His resurrection. And yet
you ought to mourn for the world but to rejoice m the Lord, to be sad
for penitence but joyful for grace, though, too, the teacher of the
Gentiles by a wholesome precept has bidden to weep with them that weep,
and to rejoice with them that do rejoice.(4)
24. But let him who desires to solve the whole difficulty of this
question have recourse to the same Apostle. "Whatsoever ye do," says he,
"in word or deed, do all in the Name of our Lord Jesus Christ, giving
thanks to God the Father by Him."(5) Let us then refer all our words and
deeds to Christ, Who brought life out of death, and created light out of
darkness. For as a sick body is at one time cherished by warmth, at
another soothed by cool applications, and the variation of remedies, if
carried out according to the direction of the physician, is healthful,
but if done in opposition to his orders increases the sickness; so
whatever is paid to Christ is a remedy, whatever is done by our own will
is harmful.
25. There ought then to be the joy of the mind, conscious of right,
not excited by unrestrained feasts, or nuptial concerts, for in such
modesty is not safe, and temptation may be suspected where excessive
dancing accompanies festivities. I desire that the virgins of God should
be far from this. For as a certain teacher of this world has said: "No
one dances when sober unless he is mad."(6) Now if, according to the
wisdom of this world, either drunkenness or madness is the cause of
dancing, what a warning is given to us amongst the instances mentioned
in the Divine Scriptures, where John, the forerunner of Christ, being
beheaded at the wish of a dancer, is an instance that the allurements of
dancing did more harm than the madness of sacrilegious anger.
CHAPTER VI.
Having mentioned the Baptist, St. Ambrose enters into a description
of the events concerning his death, and speaks against dancing and the
festivities of the wicked.
26. And since we must not cursorily pass by the mention of so great a
man, let us consider who he was, by whom, on what account, how, and at
what time he was slain. A just man, he is put to death by adulterers,
and the penalty of a capital crime is turned off by the guilty on to the
judge. Again the reward of the dancer is the death of the prophet.
Lastly (a matter of honour even to all barbarians), the cruel sentence
is given in the midst of banqueting and festivities, and the news of the
deadly crime is carried from the banquet to the prison, and then from
the prison to the banquet. How many crimes are there in one wicked act!
27. A banquet of death is set out with royal luxury,(1) and when a
larger concourse than usual had come together, the daughter of the
queen, sent for from within the private apartments, is brought forth to
dance in the sight of men. What could she have learnt from an adulteress
but loss of modesty? Is anything so conducive to lust as with unseemly
movements thus to expose in nakedness those parts of the body which
either nature has hidden or custom has veiled, to sport with the looks,
to turn the neck, to loosen the hair? Fitly was the next step an offence
against God. For what modesty can there be where there is dancing and
noise and clapping of hands?
28. "Then," it is said, "the king being pleased, said unto the
damsel, that she should ask of the king whatsoever she would. Then he
swore that if she asked he would give her even the half of his
kingdom."(2) See how worldly men themselves judge of their worldly
power, so as to give even kingdoms for dancing. But the damsel, being
taught by her mother, demanded that the head of John should be brought
to her on a dish. That which is said that "the king was sorry, "(3) is
not repentance on the part of the king, but a confession of guilt, which
is, according to the wont of the divine rule, that they who have done
evil condemn themselves by their own confession. "But for their sakes
which sat with him," it is said. What is more base than that a murder
should be committed in order not to displease those who sat at meat?
"And," it follows, "for his oath's sake." What a new religion! He had
better have forsworn himself. The Lord therefore in the Gospel bids us
not to swear at all,(1) that there be no cause for perjury, and no need
of offending. And so an innocent man is slain that an oath be not
violated. I know which to have in the greatest horror. Perjury is more
endurable than are the oaths of tyrants.
29. Who would not think when he saw some one running from the banquet
to the prison, that orders had been given to set the prophet free? Who,
I say, having heard that it was Herod's birthday, and of the state
banquet, and the choice given to the damsel of choosing whatever she
wished, would not think that the man was sent to set John free? What has
cruelty in common with delicacies? What have death and pleasure in
common? The prophet is hurried to suffer at a festal time by a festal
order, by which he would even wish to be set free; he is slain by the
sword, and his head is brought on a platter. This dish was well suited
to their cruelty, in order that their insatiate savageness might be
feasted.
30. Look, most savage king, at the sights worthy of thy feast.
Stretch forth thy right hand, that nothing be wanting to thy cruelty,
that streams of holy blood may pour down between thy fingers. And since
the hunger for such unheard-of cruelty could not be satisfied by
banquets, nor the thirst by goblets, drink the blood pouring from the
still flowing veins of the cut-off head. Behold those eyes, even in
death, the witnesses of thy crime, turning away from the sight of the
delicacies. The eyes are closing, not so much owing to death, as to
horror of luxury. That bloodless golden mouth, whose sentence thou
couldst not endure, is silent, and yet thou fearest. Yet the tongue,
which even after death is wont to observe its duty as when living,
condemned, though with trembling motion, the incest. This head is borne
to Herodias: she rejoices, she exults as though she had escaped from the
crime, because she has slain her judge.
31. What say you, holy women? Do you see what you ought to teach, and
what also to unteach your daughters? She dances, but she is the daughter
of an adulteress. But she who is modest, she who is chaste, let her
teach her daughter religion, not dancing. And do you, grave and prudent
men, learn to avoid the banquets of hateful men. If such are the
banquets, what will be the judgment of the impious?
CHAPTER VII.
In reply to Marcellina, who had asked what should be thought of those
who to escape violence killed themselves, St. Ambrose replies by
narrating the history of Pelagia, a virgin, with her mother and sister,
and goes on to speak of the martyrdom of the blessed Sotheris, one of
their own ancestors.
32. As I am drawing near the close of my address, you make a good
suggestion, holy sister, that I should touch upon what we ought to think
of the merits of those who have cast themselves down from a height, or
have drowned themselves in a river, lest they should fall into the hands
of persecutors, seeing that holy Scripture forbids a Christian to lay
hands on himself. And indeed as regard; virgins placed in the necessity
of preserving their purity, we have a plain answer, seeing that there
exists an instance of martyrdom.
33. Saint Pelagia(1) lived formerly at Antioch, being about fifteen
years old, a sister of virgins, and a virgin herself. She shut herself
up at home at the first sound of persecution, seeing herself surrounded
by those who would rob her of her faith and purity, in the absence of
her mother and sisters, without any defence, but all the more filled
with God. "What are we to do, unless," says she to herself, "thou, a
captive of virginity, takest thought? I both wish and fear to die, for I
meet not death but seek it. Let us die if we are allowed, or if they
will not allow it, still let us die. God is not offended by a remedy
against evil, and faith permits the act. In truth, if we think of the
real meaning of the word, how can what is voluntary be violence? It is
rather violence to wish to die and not to be able. And we do not fear
any difficulty. For who is there who wishes to die and is not able to do
so, when there are so many easy ways to death? For I can now rush upon
the sacrilegious altars and overthrow them, and quench with my blood the
kindled fires. I am not afraid that my right hand may fail to deliver
the blow, or that my breast may shrink from the pain. I shall leave no
sin to my flesh. I fear not that a sword will be wanting. I can die by
my own weapons, I can die without the help of an executioner, in my
mother's bosom."
34. She is said to have adorned her head, and to have put on a bridal
dress, so that one would say that she was going to a bridegroom, not to
death. But when the hateful persecutors saw that they had lost the prey
of her chastity, they began to seek her mother and sisters. But they, by
a spiritual flight, already held the field of chastity, when, as on the
one side, persecutors suddenly threatened them, and on the other, escape
was shut off by an impetuous river, they said, what do we fear? See the
water, what hinders us from being baptized? And this is the baptism
whereby sins are forgiven, and kingdoms are sought. This is a baptism
after which no one sins. Let the water receive us, which is wont to
regenerate. Let the water receive us, which makes virgins. Let the water
receive us, which opens heaven, protects the weak, hides death, makes
martyrs. We pray Thee, God, Creator of all things, let not the water
scatter our bodies, deprived of the breath of life; let not death
separate our obsequies, whose lives affection has always conjoined; but
let our constancy be one, our death one, and our burial also be one.
35. Having said these words, and having slightly girded up the bosom
of their dress, to veil their modesty without impeding their steps,
joining hands as though to lead a dance, they went forward to the middle
of the river bed, directing their steps to where the stream was more
violent, and the depth more abrupt. No one drew back, no one ceased to
go on, no one tried where to place her steps, they were anxious only
when they felt the ground, grieved when the water was shallow, and glad
when it was deep. One could see the pious mother tightening her grasp,
rejoicing in her pledges, afraid of a fall test even the stream should
carry off her daughters from her. "These victims, O Christ," said she,
"do I offer as leaders of chastity, guides on my journey, and companions
of my sufferings."
37. But who would have cause to wonder that they had such constancy
whilst alive, seeing that even when dead they preserved the position of
their bodies unmoved? The water did not lay bare their corpses, nor did
the rapid course of the river roll them along. Moreover, the holy
mother, though without sensation, still maintained her loving grasp, and
held the sacred knot which she had tied, and loosed not her hold in
death, that she who had paid her debt to religion might die leaving her
piety as her heir. For those whom she had joined together with herself
for martyrdom, she claimed even to the tomb.
38. But why use instances of people of another race to you, my
sister, whom the inspiration of hereditary chastity has taught by
descent from a martyred ancestor? For whence have you learnt who had no
one from whom to learn, living in the country, with no virgin companion,
instructed by no teacher? You have played the part then not of a
disciple, for this cannot be done without teaching, but of an heir of
virtue.
39. For how could it come to pass that holy Sotheris should not have
been the originator of your purpose, who is an ancestor of your race?
Who, in an age of persecution, borne to the heights of suffering by the
insults of slaves, gave to the executioner even her face, which is
usually free from injury when the whole body is tortured, and rather
beholds than suffers torments; so brave and patient that when she
offered her tender cheeks to punishment, the executioner failed in
striking before the martyr yielded under the injuries. She moved not her
face, she turned not away her countenance, she uttered not a groan or a
tear. Lastly, when she had overcome other kinds of punishment, she found
the sword which she desired.
[Translated by the Rev. H. de Romestin, M.A., of St. John's College,
Oxford, and Rector of Tiptree, Essex, with the assistance of the Rev. E.
de Romestin, M.A., of New College, Oxford, and the Rev. H. T. F.
Duckworth, M.A., of Merton College, Oxford.]
Taken from "The Early Church Fathers and Other Works" originally
published by Wm. B. Eerdmans Pub. Co. in English in Edinburgh, Scotland,
beginning in 1867. (LNPF II/X, Schaff and Wace).
(NOTE: The electronic text obtained from The Electronic Bible Society
was not completely corrected. EWTN has corrected all discovered errors.)
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