|One Thanks to the Other, for the Other
Part II of the Letter On the Collaboration of Men and Women in the
Church and in the World [from the Congregation for the Doctrine of the
Faith] re-examines the Sacred Scriptures with the intention of recalling,
in the light of Revelation, the "Basic elements of the biblical vision of
the human person", as the very title of the section says. Numbers 5 to 12
offer a reinterpretation and a commentary on certain key texts of the Old
and New Testaments that make it possible to shed light on:
the basic, inalienable features of humanity, created as male and
female and as such, qualified as "very good" (cf. Gn 1:31);
the drama of this relationship which in our present history is marked
by sin, alienated from its original truth and goodness, and therefore
awaits the healing which it needs;
the way that Christ, in saving humanity, intervenes to heal this
fundamental relationship, restoring it to its original truth, that is, to
the eternal thought of God.
Three preliminary observations
1. The order of the texts explained follows the treatment of this topic
by Sacred Scripture in its canonical form, all the way from the Book of
Genesis to the Book of Revelation. An important truth thus finds implicit
confirmation: Revelation undoubtedly opens humanity to the knowledge of
God, of his project of love in history and of the Face of the Father made
manifest in the Son.
This same Word of God, however, simultaneously teaches man knowledge of
his own identity, of the nature of his dignity and likewise of the
conditions required for an authentic human life.
Thus, every time he speaks, God reveals at the same time who he is and
who man is. Christian anthropology finds in this a primary, crucial
characteristic: self-knowledge by means of reason and experience acquired
with their strength alone does not suffice for men and women. If they
desire true self-knowledge, they need to receive from God the secret of
their deepest identity.
2. The analysis in this section also reveals that in the Sacred
Scriptures the difference between the sexes is in no way a marginal
reality or even a provisional topic doomed by the end of history to have
On the contrary, on the one hand, this reality is present from the very
beginning in the creation texts: this is concomitant with the Creator's
act from which humanity emerges.
On the other hand, this reality is represented at the end of history in
the future vision of humanity transfigured in the heavenly Jerusalem.
Furthermore, during the course of time and history, the distinction
between man and woman is located at the centre of the salvific work by
which God comes to visit his own through his Son, who becomes flesh in
male form through the welcoming of a woman, Mary, daughter of Zion, in
whom humanity finds the perfection of its relationship with God.
One especially understands from this fact how the statement of St.
Paul, "there is neither male nor female" (Gal 3:28), cannot be interpreted
as an affirmation of an abolition, in Christ, of the sexes, because this
difference was willed and ordered by God in the very act in which he
called humanity into existence (cf. n. 12).
Instead, in Jesus, who shares his holiness with those the Father
entrusted to him, the rivalries and violence that threaten to downplay the
rapport between man and woman are overcome, and it becomes possible to
live in harmony, serenity and happiness.
3. At this point, it is necessary to recall the important contribution
that this Scriptural journey owes to John Paul II's elaboration on the
question of the person and to his anthropology of the couple, as well as a
theology of marriage directed towards the renewed understanding of the
body and relationships a theme often treated by this Supreme Pontiff.
As a result, the second part of the present Document continually places
great emphasis on the Sacred Scriptures and the analyses done by John Paul
II in the Post-Synodal Exhortation Familiaris Consortio, in the
Apostolic Letter Mulieris Dignitatem and in the Letter to Families,
just as in his Catecheses on marriage or "body language".
This series of teachings bears witness to an undeniable progress in the
understanding of the content of Revelation, in an anthropological context
that gets to the heart of the mystery of salvation. It thus comes about,
according to the thought of Gregory the Great, that "the text grows with
its reader", from the moment in which the latter allows charity to work in
him and permits the Spirit to awaken in him the depths of God and of his
very own existence.
Specific themes addressed
1. Humanity, an ontologically relational reality
The Document begins in n. 5 with the enunciation of the key principle
of Christian anthropology, continually taken up and commented upon by the
Church of the West (St. Irenaeus, St. Augustine) as well as by the East
(St. Gregory of Nyssa): humanity is created "in the image and likeness of
God" (Gn 1:27).
Such an affirmation, however, is connected to the reference to the
difference between the sexes, as one reads in Genesis 1:27: "So God
created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and
female he created them". In this manner God creates by distinguishing, by
making differentiated realities emerge from chaos.
The "distinction" is especially the presupposition and the condition of
the relationship, which is at the foundation of human life conceived
through sharing between persons.
From birth, therefore, every human being is marked by the difference of
sexes and is called to live this difference in a just way.
We are thus very far from an exploitation of indistinct or confused
relationships, which the Bible recognizes as sterile and deadly. It is
precisely in the face-to-face experience with the other, near and at the
same time different, that the human being discovers personal identity and
actualizes in oneself something of the image of God, who is found within
In an age when so-called ideal relationships abound which tend to
confuse the sexes and in which anthropological concepts are set forth that
would like to completely blot out the difference between the sexes, one
can truly understand how important and precious the Biblical text is.
In an age, furthermore, in which there is talk of competition between
the sexes or of a re-conquest of power as the remedy to injustice, the
Word of God restores to man and woman their true identity; one cannot
stand without the other, and each one exists by means of the other and for
2. The meaning of sexuality
What has been affirmed above is decisive for a judgment on human
In nn. 6 and 8 of the Document, which provide a treatment of this
issue, the analysis of John Paul II on the spousal nature of the human
body takes on particular importance. The body, in fact, is marked by a
difference that makes it masculine or feminine and which invites one to
relate according to the respective expressive manners, which are not only
physical but also psychological and spiritual.
This means that sexuality's anthropological dimension is increased to a
theological dimension, which pertains to humanity's relational existence
and which is therefore also in rapport with the image of God, the love
present within every man and woman.
3. When the relationship with the other deteriorates
One is to begin from this perspective situated under the sign of "very
good" in which the drama described in Genesis 3 is considered, but only in
a subsequent moment. The connection between the deterioration of the
rapport between humanity and God through disobedience to the divine
prohibition and the deterioration of the rapport between man and woman
is clear and evident.
There is a sort of reciprocal implication between the man doubtful
towards God and the refusal to recognize himself as a creature before the
Creator, on the one hand, and on the other, the difficulty of living the
difference between the sexes that characterizes humanity in its relational
Therefore, considering the divine image, of which the human bears the
impression, one perceives the subsequent danger that this situation
carries with it: the fact that the manifestation of the Face of God
through those whom he has created in his image and likeness becomes
Precisely for this reason one understands how even this vary marital
relationship is immediately involved in Christ's Redemption when he
reconciles humanity to its Creator and causes it to merge in its own
filial relationship with the Father (cf. n.11).
4. The Covenant at the centre of Revelation
The same logic explains that the story of Israel and God's revelation
of himself to his people are expressed in terms of a Covenant, with an
allusion to the marital covenant. Prophetic literature fully illustrates
this reality by treating the relationship between God and Israel as a
relationship between husband and wife, with its risks, dramas and
possibilities of recuperating the newness of an ever mere faithful love
(cf. n. 9).
The Book of Hosea, above all, teaches Israel to decipher its story as a
spiritual drama comparable to a marital relationship put to the test of
infidelity. As such, the hope and promise of salvation in turn express
themselves in nuptial terms, as the Books of Hosea and Isaiah bear
The Prophet Isaiah can evoke the mystery of salvation that God prepares
by associating the oracles of the Servant to the oracles of Zion, joining
the masculine and the feminine with an approach that will be clarified
only at the manifestation of Jesus, the Messiah, Son of the Virgin Mary.
Finally, the Song of Songs, which associates how much the human element
exists and how much more the divine element exists, according to
traditional Church interpretation, establishes the completed expression of
the Covenant where the relations between God and humanity are
re-established, as well as the relations that are at the base of the human
couple and of human love.
The Document underscores the fact that in this mystery of salvation,
human experience is contemporaneously recovered, assumed and overcome by
the divine reality.
Nonetheless, here it is not a simple metaphor that can be abandoned and
substituted with another equivalent one Sacred Scripture invites us to
recognize the very profound affinity between the Covenant and the covenant
of man and woman. Everything occurs as if Revelation needed to express
itself, to make itself truly known, to pass through this central reality
of human life.
5. The new creation in Christ
The New Testament develops aim brings to fulfilment the Revelation of
God's nuptial begun in the Old Testament (cf. n. 10).
Jesus, the beloved Son of the Father, assumes in his masculinity the
word of the prophets concerning the love of God, the Husband, and explains
the importance of this word, beyond every expectation, through the gift of
his own life on the Cross.
The Gospel of John, particularly in its initial recounting of the
wedding of Cana and the Passion, speaks of the Messianic wedding that
inaugurates and actualizes the New Covenant.
The question of the couple and of fidelity to the marital relationship
again becomes current, thanks especially to the newness of this Covenant.
Thus, in Chapter 19 of Matthew's Gospel, Jesus appeals to the previous
arrangement of the "beginning" in order to stigmatize the act of writing
up a bill of divorce, indicating in this way the newness of a time in
which men and women can be, in Christ and thanks to him, witnesses of a
fidelity stronger than sin.
And thus is announced the grace that makes all things new, especially
the human heart, which receives from Christ the capacity to love as God
himself loves (cf. n. 11).
The relationship between man and woman more than ever appears essential
in God's plan and in the life of humanity. Far from desiring to abolish or
supersede it, Christ introduces this relationship in a condition of
justice that is destined to flourish in eternity.
The conclusion of the Book of Revelation, where the Bride and the
Spirit invoke the coming of the Bridegroom, attests that the eternity
prepared by God for those who love him is inseparable from the difference
between man and woman, even though such a difference is called to be
transformed from the time that will no longer be lived in a way marked by
death and thus by generation.
In this regard, the consecrated celibate person is not at all
disqualified in comparison to the married state. Even the unmarried person
is included in the distinction between man and woman and in their
relationship, even if in a manner other than the married life.
This same celibate person must be able to live as a figure and promise
of the heavenly Jerusalem, where this foundational difference will receive
the fullness of truth through God's glory and humanity's happiness. Male
and female thus belong ontologically to creation (cf. n. 12).
6. The identity of the woman
This rereading of the Sacred Scriptures through a lens that values the
man-woman relationship offers a precious, clarifying contribution,
especially on the very identity of woman. And thus, the end of Genesis,
which defines her as the ezer of man, is accompanied by a brief
commentary (cf. n. 6).
Contrary to a hasty and superficial understanding of the text, it here
recognizes in the woman, whom God presents to man in the second chapter of
Genesis, much more than a simple aid destined to alleviate his earthly
labours. The meaning of the word ezer goes well beyond that, since
in the Bible the same term as n. 5 of the Document reminds us is
applied to God in his relationship with humanity, as a vital help.
The same n. 6 cross-references the statement of St. Paul in I Cor 11:9:
"Neither was man created for woman, but woman for man". In the light of
Revelation, it is clear that this expression is not intended to confine
women to a state of submission and alienation.
On the contrary, it is an invitation to recognize in the female's
being, defined in this manner, a reflection of the very essence of God,
who makes himself known as someone who is "for human beings" and reveals
himself as an unfathomable mystery in the distinction and communion of the
three persons of the Trinity.
Lastly, n. 10 refers to the fifth chapter of the Epistle to the
Ephesians in order to invite every baptized person to recognize in the
love lived within the Christian couple, the "mystery" of the marital love
of Christ for the Church.
Human life thus finds truth and clarity in its double polarity of
masculine and feminine, beyond the defeats and violence experienced by men
and women, as well as beyond the ambiguities of certain currents of
Men and women have the calling to live, one thanks to the other, and
one for the other. Each is called to recognize in the other the dignity
that comes to him or her from the Creator.
Each is invited to meet and receive the other in "collaboration", which
finds its completion in "communion", that is, by participating in charity,
which is the very essence of God revealed as Holy Trinity.
This new view of being renewed by the Spirit who makes all things new
and who converts hearts is the good news that the Christian faith brings
to today's men and woman who are awaiting truth and happiness.