|"If you believed Moses you would then believe
me, for it was about me that he wrote." (John 5:46)
That first email was stiff and stilted, commenting about something
on her page. It was not decorated with cheerful emotions, or saucy in humor. But it was a
She wrote back, and I replied, and soon we were emailing regularly. The stiffness and
anger faded eventually to forgiveness. We each saw the wrongs we'd both committed against
each other and asked forgiveness. Then something found its way into the messages
that I had missed for ten long years. Love. The bond between mother and daughter had been
ignited once more. I described in detail her three grandchildren: Michael, age five;
David, age three; and Chrissy, a three-month-old babe. My mother had only seen pictures of
them through other family members. I described them to her now. How they smiled. Their
fears, and their joys. Their distinct and marvelous personalities. When they said
something funny, I would type it in an email and send it to her, introducing her to their
charm, and the sheer miracle of their existence.
She jotted off details of my childhood, tidbits I had forgotten. Funny stories to tell my
children someday. Over a distance of 2,000 miles, she was getting to know her
grandchildren, and reacquainting herself with me.
One day, an email arrived saying she was coming for a visit, if that was okay. Tears
streaming down my face, I typed my reply, "Yes, come. The kids would love to see you.
I would love to see you."
She came. She saw for herself all the details I'd written about my children. She held them
in her arms, and smelled their hair. She hugged me, and met the man of my dreams, my
While she was visiting, we wrote to my grandmother. Growing up, I hadn't known my
grandmother very well. My mother and she had also been estranged. Funny how generations
repeat themselves sometimes.
Gradually we began an email relationship, and now we converse regularly, spanning the
miles and the lost years with the click of a send button. She has a sense of humor I
adore, and her wit is razor sharp. I'm proud to call her Grandma. Even prouder that she
calls me granddaughter.
I hear all the time that the internet is full of garbage and sex. I would say yes, if you
are looking for it. But the internet is also full of rewarding experiences for those with
the courage to take them.
It is a resource for finding lost relatives, educating your children, learning the
wonderful diversity of humanity, and most importantly to me, keeping touch with family and
friends. Don't fear this technology. Embrace the good in it!
I smile now to think I almost argued my husband out of this computer. It's one argument
I'm glad I lost. The funny thing is, my husband rarely uses the computer. But I'm fairly
sure I've made good use of it. My mother and Grandmother agree. ... Karman Wilson
Q: Aside from Ash Wednesday, which begins Lent, what are its principal events?
A: There are a variety of saints' days which fall during Lent, and some of these change
from year to year since the dates of Lent itself change based on when Easter falls.
However, the Sundays during the Lenten season commemorate special events in the life of
Our Lord, such as his Transfiguration and his Triumphal Entrance into Jerusalem on Palm
Sunday, which begins Holy Week. Holy week climaxes with Holy Thursday, on which Christ
celebrated the first Mass, Good Friday, on which he was Crucified, and Holy Saturday --
the last day of Lent -- during which Our Lord lay in the Tomb before his Resurrection on
Easter Sunday, the first day after Lent.
Give up drinking for today; give the money saved to the poor.
Lord, during this Lenten season nourish us with Your word of life and make us
one in love and prayer.